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I had sex with my friend's girlfriend. Now I am confused.

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asked Apr 12, 2014 in Questions by DivJovi (120 points)
edited Apr 12, 2014 by longhands1

I had sex with my friend's girlfriend. Now, I am feeling guilty about this. My friend, is not my best buddy, but he and his gf are both committed from a long time though. The situation was that my friend's GF stays near my home and we know each other for a long time. I am their common friend.

She called me one day to her home and was crying because something happened in between them. She was crying a lot. so I thought to relax her and was with her for the whole day. We smoked and and were high. In the evening she started firstand I could not stop myself.

Now she has been calling me for another hangout. What should i do? I am feeling guilty because I did not want to spoil anybody's relationship, but being a man I couldn't stop myself from having sex with her. She doe not have any problem. I justify this by thinking that my friend also had sex with other gals and his GF didn't know about this. So both have had sex outside.

Now I think, I have given all the points for a correct answer. And about my personal status, I am single and confused..!!

 

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Dude,

If she had sex with you,  it means she is actually not emotionally committed with her lover (your friend).  A real lady who is really committed to her lover never does that. And in fact it can be seen that she purposefully invited you to tell her side of story. I recommend you just stay away from her because such women are not at all worthy to have sex, if you had sex with her you will always be cursing  yourself.

Better stay out because she can easily move from one relation to another but at the end you will have fallen in love with her, believe me this will be the end if you continue with her. She is a hypocrite. even if you say no to her, she will make many reasons for you to call her, so Stop.
answered Apr 12, 2014 by sonu999 (200 points)
edited Apr 12, 2014 by longhands1
commented Apr 13, 2014 by DivJovi (120 points)
The thing is that.. i have no problem to have sex neither i have that mentality to fall in love from one girl to another.. as far as for the sex i am ok.. i had sex.. but the problem is that i am confused she is  in a relationship with my friend(who isn't my best buddy or something) for about 4-5 years.. so  should i continue sex with her with no strings attached for both of us.. and on the other side the friend of mine who also had sex with many girls being in a relationship for such a long time.. should i take advantage or not.. i want real men answers not girly type( like i'l fall in love with her do i look like dumb ass to you) sorry dude thnx but this was not the answer i was looking for.. i've asked many people even gals they've told me to enjoy and go 4 it.. what do you think ANJALI i want your answer coz u r the mastermind here..!!!
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There is no serious commitment your friend has with her boyfriend otherwise she would never cheated her bf, she is sex starved girl and fulfilling her desire of sex. As far as your sex session with your friend's girlfriend is concerned, I am not advising you to stop your relationship with her, as it is great to fuck friend's girlfriend and enjoy. Keep your relationship with her secretly and do not catch by your friend otherwise, you will lose both your friend and your fucking friend.

Morally it is wrong to have relation with friend's girlfriend but I am thinking that there is nothing-serious relationship sharing your fucking friend with her boyfriend that means with your friend. You both are human, human have desire to have sex, and you are not out of this. Before going to go ahead consider your feeling because of you are feeling guilty and it is very hard to live with guilty.
answered Apr 14, 2014 by alpesh kapdi (20,515 points)
commented Apr 15, 2014 by DivJovi (120 points)
you are the man..!!!
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Dear div,
if u are confident enough that you won't get trapped by any means love , emotioonal , blackmail etc... Then as suggest by your other freinds go for it ..

At the same time smartly convey your freind that she is not worth for him .. So that he also finds someone else who is really loving and committed unlike this girl.


Have fun man
answered Apr 14, 2014 by Headgearwale (800 points)
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Div. Jovi,

Why are you worried about other people's moral character. You cannot comtrol that.  What you can control is your own character. In your question and your comment, you keep questioning their morality and also keep saying that he is not your bosom friend. Tell me, what are friends for? You have sex with your friend's ( ok, not your best friend ) girlfriend and then question his character!

If you feel guilty about what you did, stop further interaction with both of them or else continue having sex with her and let your friend figure it out for himself. We know what your opition will be. Do you really think our advice in this matter will matter to you?

The fact that you have been invited again, shows her intentions. Be prepared for the ugly scene when her boyfriend finds out about you laying his girlfriend. At that time your explanation that he also has been having sex with others will not help.

My question to you is: Will you stand by the girl at that time or wont you? 

answered Apr 14, 2014 by longhands1 (64,215 points)
commented Apr 15, 2014 by DivJovi (120 points)
I won't..!! i am just having some fun.. that's it yeah i do feel guilt about it..!! becoz of my moral character.. but as it is said TO RETALIATE.. might be God has chosen me to teach my friend a lesson.. I'll now fuck out her brains...!! and let him marry her.. m sooo cruel..!!
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hello..If you are having guilt feeling about anything, not only sex, it is better not to indulge in it. It will not give you any happiness. Why do something just to prove to yourself and regret later.Those who have guilt feelings do not make good Casanovas. It is evident that she has no guilt feelings. I think most of the girls are like that as they have stronger mind. It is also clear that the other BF is only one of many, like you to that girl.

If she is not feeling guilty you too need not feel guilty. That is logic. But what type of mental make up you have is the question. Another problem is the situation if the other BF comes know of your relation with the Girl.

I do not belong to the generation of BF/GF, so i do not understand the basic rules of the game. Of course it is not marriage where fidelity is expected.Where is the question of cheating and guilt feelings ? But again if you are having such feelings break away from the girl. It is that simple.
answered Apr 14, 2014 by sumitran9 (1,580 points)
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Divjobvi,

     Dude, i think there is no need to feel guilty about this. You have sex with her conscience then no need to feel guilty anout this. And if you still find guilty abiut it then don't interact with her.

     You mention that you don't want to cheat your friend ans in sametime you don't want to lost the chance of fucking her. you are right at your side.

      But my dear friend, be ready or prepared when you both got caught by your friend, its a silly reason when you claim he is also having sex with other girls too. So i think they both are in relationship just to have sex not serious. Because no girl likes to have sex outside relationship but it is not so. If you don't have sex with her then she might looking for another guy. She is sex slave. Onetime it can be mistake but again asking to do same is not a mistake.

       So nor your friend nor she is interestingbin long term relationship or they both have no problem with each others sexual affairs. They know the truth about it. Both are cheating each other. So i think if she is asking you to have sex with her and if you are really interested in it then go for it. Because i think this relationship is not going to survive for long time as there is no trust in this relationship. You are just excuse to them if they broke up nothing more. if you keep yourself aside from all this then any other guy will take your place. I hope you understand what i want to say that.
answered Apr 18, 2014 by Manoj4u (6,155 points)

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