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asked Apr 20, 2014 in Notices by longhands1 (57,135 points)
edited Nov 7, 2015 by longhands1

Hello Users,

I have been planning for a long time to have a conversation with YOU. There are a few points, me and my Editor colleagues keep pointing out through PMs (Personal Messages), but these do not seem to have any effect.

1. Please complete your Profile, before you ask a Question. Registering is not sufficient. Your Profile should indicate age, some points about yourself, whether you are married etc.

2. We have come across some Users giving their email address and blatantly canvassing for sex, either from females or from gays. We will ban such Users without notice. We are not a Sex Site that provides contacts for Sex. We provide advice on sexual issues and relationship matters.

3. Once we approve a question, do not edit it again. If you have some matter to add, add it in Comments. If we find it is re-edited, we will hide the question.

4. New Users keep asking questions about Topics that we have spoken about earlier. Please search for your Topic, by typing a few words (eg. masturbation or Erectile dysfunction) in the Box, which is on the top right hand corner.  Better still, read all the questions asked in the last month, you will find an answer.

5. Do not reply to Posts which are more than six months old. Some Users reply to Posts which are 1-2 years old. It is a waste of time - Yours and ours.

6. Have the courtesy to "comment" on the Answers that you receive. Choose one Answer as "The Best Answer". Remember, Users who are answering your Question are giving their time and effort. NONE of us gets paid for our Time and effort.        

7. If you have asked a question previously but not commented on the Answers, we will not approve your next question. We want your feedback. Do not ask a question and disappear.

Wishing all our Users a happy time on our Site.

Your Chief Editor,

Longhands1

commented May 1, 2015 by akib (120 points)
moved May 1, 2015 by prashant69
Thank you so much !!!! As your team would be very help. To me...in the future ......
so its my duty to co-operate. With u....therefore. I agree ur norms ....thank you..
commented May 17, 2015 by Rrkk_1 (100 points)
moved May 17, 2015 by prashant69
I am agreed.i will remember this.
commented Jun 19, 2015 by rahul2015 (100 points)
moved Jun 19, 2015 by prashant69
okies......  male from Delhi India , Married .thats all.
commented Jun 22, 2015 by Tia (120 points)
m agreed with this and i like your site....
commented Oct 1, 2016 by longhands1 (57,135 points)

Thanks Tia for the compliment and the encouragement.

Sometimes the Best Advice to a problem is given by strangers as they do not take sides. On our Site, the Users themselves give their Advice.

We all have something to learn in Sex from others and this Site is trying to provide that. We do not get paid for our Services and are doing it to spread knowledge and help whereever we can.

LH

 




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I waited a while before adding to this topic. I wanted to see the kind of responses that some of our users had made.

In regard to filling in profiles when a new person joins, would we not be better off making the basic information we want as men data re-responses before awarding membership to new users? I know that doesn't solve the problem for existing users, but at least new joiners would be forced to put some basic information into their profiles. Then we could perhaps instigate a rolling update for all users to complete the basic profile information or be suspended?

Perhaps this is a little Draconian, but I can't think of any other way of getting people to put basic information in. After all, it's not like we are asking for anything really intimate. What's wrong with knowing how old somebody is, what their gender is, the area therefrom, and their status?

As for the repetition of questions that keep getting asked time after time after time, we have a choice of either repeating ourselves ad infinitum, or deleting repetitions. Or maybe a 3rd option is to just ignore those questions, forcing the questioner to look through the archive the final answer. I get sick of seeing the same old things about whether a guy's penis is big enough, or what to do about his foreskin, or how many times a day wants to whack off.

I'm glad to see that we seem to be taking a slightly modified stance on questions of incest. At one time this seemed to be an anathema, but now at least it's being discussed. My own view is well enough known, I don't think we should be refusing questions on any aspect of sex, even those subjects which we may find repugnant. If we set ourselves up as advisers, we do ourselves and our readers a disservice if we refuse to discuss certain things. Attitudes towards child sex, rape, violence, bestiality and so on can't be changed by ignoring them.

I must point out to anyone reading this, I am expressing my own personal views, and I do not presume to be expressing the opinions of any of the other editorial staff, the moderator, or the site owners. I accept full responsibility for my opinions.

Salma

answered Jun 22, 2015 by sexysalma (14,845 points)
commented Jun 23, 2015 by longhands1 (57,135 points)

Salma,

Most of your Points have merit. And have been thought of before. Unfortunately, ADMIN (Owners) have not been able to implement the suggestion of Registeration only on completion of the Users Profile. They have been citing financial implications of getting the programming changed.

I send every New User, a Message in the Format given below:

We observe that your PROFILE  is incomplete. Kindly check your Profile to ensure that the following are completed:
Age:
Interest:
Few Lines about yourself:
How you came to know about AA:  
Name (not compulsory).
We understand your haste to ask a question and so have made the Registration process very easy, convenient and quick. If you want to ask a Question, you will need to comply or your Question will be rejected.  
Go to My Account and Update your Profile.  After you have done so, you can repeat your question.
Regards,
Longhands – Moderator

You can visualize the time spent in this boring and cumbersome exercise. 

Your suggestion about rejection of repetitive questions has been tried before. I have been advising Users how to SEARCH for their Answers, but obviously it is not successful. We are losing New Users, by rejecting (a one time question, maybe) their questions.

As you have observed, we are more liberal with all Types of questions (except religious, Political ad blasphemous). 

You may also have noticed that choosing a Best Answer is compulsory, before asking the next question. In this way, I am able to exercise some kind of feedback and force Users to acknowlege an Answer. Earlier, questions were asked and then the User would disappear.

Every User who asks a second question, without choosing a Best Answer for the First, is sent the following message:

You have not chosen a BEST Answer for your previous question. 

You can choose Best answer by ticking on the tick (right) sign that you see on the left side at the beginning of every answer.

Remember, that once you tick an answer as the Best ANSWER it cannot be changed by anyone, including us.  So take time and think. All the Best.

Wait for a few Answers before you select a Best Answer. Then ask your new question.

These are the Rules of our Site. Please read the FAQs and the Links provided after every Question.

Your Question will be rejected, if you do not select the Best Answer for your previous question immediately.

Thanks.

Trust this clarifies,

Longhands

 

commented Jun 24, 2015 by sexysalma (14,845 points)

I know you go to great lengths try and make the joining process as useful as possible. I suppose, even if we did make certain things mandate, it wouldn't stop people from telling lies anyway. After all, without some means of vetting any replies, anyone can pretend to be something that they are not. Who knows what kind of people we have lurking in the shadows??? Certainly some of the questions we receive suggest that there are some very dubious characters peeking out of the sewers. I get a lot of PM's these days, and I definitely get my fair share of creeps!!! I guess it comes with the editorial job.

As regards repetition, I suppose, no matter how much we try to guide people towards the archives, some people just won't be told.

Anyway, I'll just say thanks to you for your efforts as moderator.

Salma

commented Jun 25, 2015 by shyam shyam (310 points)
moved Jun 26, 2015 by prashant69
Thanks long hands. Will keep these in mind.
commented Jun 30, 2015 by Ajith art (150 points)
moved Jun 30, 2015 by prashant69
Thankyou sir,
I accept all the things you said.
I like this site very much and often i visit this site
commented Aug 21, 2015 by sarasija (115 points)
moved Aug 21, 2015 by prashant69
Agreed.I will take care of it.
commented Sep 1, 2015 by saib bhat (100 points)
I have read all this.. I will remember all this..thanks
commented Sep 19, 2015 by sanjayservice (285 points)
ok,

Thanks and regards
sanjay
commented Nov 3, 2015 by abhi1233 (100 points)
agreed...this site helps lots of people ..keep up the good work
commented Jan 16, 2016 by suraj_27 (100 points)
edited Oct 1, 2016 by longhands1
Hi Huma,
Myself i am a very much female feet lover & being a feet lover i could say Obviously it's a kind of sexual desire & I must say he is a very lucky guy to touch your feet.even In my case it was the same situation.my aunt used to trample my penis just for fun when i was a very small boy. But,now i am totally addicted to feet fetish very badly & i simply love fair feet with painted nails.
According to me, worshipping female feet is just like a mind blowing.some people think it's weird.in fact,it's a great pleasure.
So I kindly request you to allow him to touch or massage your feet & let him be happy & enjoy as long as you don't have any problems.
To be honest i am in search of feet mistress as it's my fantasy to worship beautiful female feet.
commented Sep 4, 2016 by ismailpd (130 points)
moved Sep 4, 2016 by prashant69
agreed...this site helps lots of people ..keep up the good work

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