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I feel guilty having watched my mom having sex with other man.

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asked Apr 26, 2015 in Questions by raman15kr (120 points)
edited Apr 27, 2015 by longhands1

I am 16 years old living in Gurgaon. I study in 12th class. In day time I go to school and my father goes at work and my mom stays alone in the house. Recently I noticed  3-4 times when I come early from school I see my uncle’s car outside our house and when I ring doorbell mom opens door very late and everytime she gives same excuse like I was in the bathroom.

When I look around I find no one at home and then the car disappears. (Neeraj uncle is my father’s boss). Last week when I came early and again I found his car parked so I went to my neighbor’s house and entered my home from terrace. Slowly I went to mom’s room and from a/c pipe hole in the wall I saw both of them lying completely naked on the bed and neeraj uncle giving hard strokes fucking my moms pussy.

To be honest I saw couple having sex live for the very first time and enjoyed watching it. Even though the naked lady was my mom and having sex with other men I stood there and watched them for 40-45 mins.  I noticed my moms face was relaxed and smiling throughout her fuck session which shows that they were not doing it for the first time.

But now I am feeling guilty that I stood there and watched my mother having sex, instead I should have gone back to school.

Shall I tell everything to my father or shall I remain quite as the man fucking my mom is my father’s boss and can put his job on the line.

Please help.

 

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This is a tricky situatiosituation, and I would advise yoyou to say nothing to your father.

When you are alone with mum you could tell her you've seen her with this man, and how you feel about it. Hopefully, she will stop when she knows she's been caught, and at least your dad will be spared the humiliation of discovering his wife's betrayal.

You have to consider that it is possible that therthere are underlying reasons that you aren't aware of for your mum's infidelity. It's not unknown for a wife to sleep with her husband's boss to win her husband promotion and advantage at work; on the other hand, she may be a selfish cheat. May be she isn't getting any love from your dad? There could be many reasons why this is happening, that you are unaware of, so either talk to mum, or say nothing at all.

You would be caught in ththe middle, and resented by both your parents if you reveal the things you've seen, and your mum will be angry to know that she has been caught, and ashamed that you've seen her in the most intimate circumstances.

Salma

answered Apr 26, 2015 by sexysalma (14,920 points)
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Raman, The age you are at now, its unfortunate for you what the destiny made you witness ! You need not to know why grown up persons indulge in these things, what makes them do it, whether it has began with reluctance and forced/ blackmailed or done with consent or what!

   You may not understand or would not believe that even some husbands makes their wives to sleep with boss or some other influencial person for financial or official gains like promotion or raise or for getting perques in the job! I am not saying that your father made her sleep with his boss. I am just pointing out the probability. If you check the older questions on this site you would find a question by woman who slept with the boss of her husband for promotion of her husband and he came back to her asking for more and requesting to make it a permnant arrangement for forever. So it may be possible that she might have made a sacrifice for him (your father) and boss would have came back asked more and she consented .

    Now the deed is done and can not be erased And unfortunately for you , you know what you should have never known.

    Look have a liberal attitude. Its very clear from your narration that she was enjoying the act when you saw them . So under whatever circumstances she was doing it or had done it , it was always necessarily consensual act.

      When two elders do something like sex with consent and if it is not hurting anyone physically and they are not breaking any law or committing a crime then in my opinion it is not a big deal and i agree morally it is a crime and if really your father is innocent and after knowing this he may leve her and in the process you would suffer the most.

   So in a subtle way make your mom aware that you know what has been going around when only she is at home. You can tell her that neighborhood friends of your teasing him that in the ansence of you and your father some one suspious visits house and remains inside in the house. Grab the picture of the parked car outside your house with a cellphone and show her the date and timings and ask an explanation. If she opens up then you would know how and why it started in first place. May be possible also that your father would not be adequate  in the bedroom so she might have adopted relation with this guy or simply he would have been paying her money , costly gifts etc. Anything is possible. But remain calm. Keep your eyes open and see if you have any  unexplained new things in her wordrobe, expensive jewellery , expensive items in your household. Avoid telling your father right now. First give her an opportunity to come out of this and most important thing is have broad and liberal view on the things. Best of luck ! Do keep us informed!

    

answered Apr 26, 2015 by prashant69 (6,700 points)
commented Apr 26, 2015 by prashant69 (6,700 points)

Another point i want to  tell  you is, as mentioned in the title of question about your feeling of  guilt ; see you are innocent and have not done anything wrong at all. So do not remain guilt ridden .You have not done anything wrong at all!

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Hello, You need  not have to feel guilty  for accidently  seeing some thing though unpleasant. . These things happen in life. Don't be in a hurry to tell your father. Talk to your mother first and see what happens. You don't have to feel  guilty for enjoying the scene. Any person would have got   excited seeing a naked female body. That is the basic instincts which takes over  his brains .We all are human beings and also living beings. And don't try to judge or brand your future  wife after this incident. There may may be many reasons behind it, which as a very young boy may not be able to evaluate it .
Just don't worry.
answered Apr 26, 2015 by sumitran9 (1,580 points)
edited Apr 26, 2015 by prashant69
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maybe she is not satisfied with your dad, and your uncle satisfied your mother give her lots of pleasure.
thatsy you noticed your moms face was relaxed and smiling throughout her fuck session,
answered Apr 27, 2015 by nishantt (145 points)
commented Apr 27, 2015 by prashant69 (6,700 points)

#Rahul and others ,All please note that we are stricter than strictest that multiple answering is NOT allowed under any   circumstances . When  someone gives an answer and in case  he/ she receives a comment and wish to respond to that comment , then she/ he would have to comment only! Hope all of you would follow this!

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Simple ansers bud:
1. Stop ony "wathing" mom
2. Videotape next mom fuck

done
y whining?
answered Sep 30, 2015 by wallyarr (110 points)
edited Sep 30, 2015 by prashant69
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discuss it with your mom that this is not good, if she wants she can do with your father
answered Jan 30 by adityaarya (210 points)
commented Jan 30 by alpesh kapdi (18,935 points)

Please do not waste your time answering the old questions.

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