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How do I fulfill my Fantasy to have a threesome with wife's friend?

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asked Jul 12, 2015 in Questions by incognitodream (160 points)
edited Jul 13, 2015 by longhands1

I am 25 years old, male from Mumbai. Since last few weeks, I have been having a fantasy of having a threesome with my wife's friend. My wife after coming from work keeps on telling me stories about her friend who is also her colleague. She is unmarried and is good looking too.

They both share a common room at work. My wife is close to her and also shares lots of information regarding our sex life with her just like women share with each other. Everytime I hear about her, I have this wild fantasy of having a threesome with her alongwith my wife.

Do you think I am wrong or should I go for it? I don't know how my wife will react. Please give suggestions.

 

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There is nothing wrong in fantasy as it does not harm anyone but to turn into reality is very different. If you and your wife are mature about things then it should go good. However, I did not find any clue from your wife in your narration so even to thinking about threesome is out of question.

My straight advice, do not try to discuss your idea of threesome to your wife if you do not want any hurdle in your married life. Just keep it a fantasy. Doing it in reality will only cause trouble in the future.
Dont complicate the situation. Just keep it as it is.
answered Jul 13, 2015 by alpesh kapdi (22,130 points)
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1. Watch MFF threesome porn with your wife.
2. Eventually she will ask you whom do you fancy. At that point you can tell her about her friend.
3. Go out for movies/parties/dancing/picnics along with her friend. All three of you.
4. Encourage your wife to bring her home for dinners and stay overs.
5. Share dirty jokes when all of you are together
6. Be physically free with your wifes friend. Hug her, hold her by her waist. Shower her with praise. Compliment on her dress, perfume, her walk. Do it one-to-one with her as well as when all three are together.
7. Play truth or dare, the three of you. and in one of the dares, get them to kiss each other, mouth to mouth
8. Play strip poker

Do not ask your wife directly that you want to have a threesome. Let it evolve as a natural progression.
answered Jul 18, 2015 by kinkyguy (1,415 points)
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incognitodream, Nothing wrong in having such fantasy provided your wife agrees doing it . ?For that you have to open up yourself and try to open her up on this. For this you either can bring FFM porn videos in your bedroom and watch it with your wife prior to having sex and then while having sex discuss about the porn with her and see her reaction about it .

     Another way is roleplaying . Just talk your (both's) sexual fantasies and encourage her to express herself freely and then while telling yours start with your fantasy of having sex with two gorgeous women . If she is comfortable and have accepted it then bring her friend  along with her in it .If she again is comfortable with it tell her to explore the possibilty of doing it in real.

       If you ever get successful in bringing them together in a room for this threesome sex , remember to pay very equal attention to both of them as if your wife notices that she is being neglected and that girl is getting your more attention then it could create problems/ issues in your marital life . Because it is said that 'woman thy name is jelousy !'

  I have  got another thinking coming and that is what if your wife tells you of her fantasy being in MMF threesome with you and another male? Would you still want to proceed or you think only men are entitled to have such fantasies?

 

answered Jul 19, 2015 by prashant69 (6,930 points)
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I am in slight agreement with Kinky Guy. As matter of fact, sexually appease her so much that she is compelled to share this very experience alongside this colleague. Without a doubt, most women are vocal. Since your question is 100% focused on having a threesome, this scenario is very likely to take place. At same time, this won't be a one off thing, you will get used to threesome's, swapping and much more.

Porn films project various categories such as M.M.F, INTERRACIAL, chats and exposure to these items will definitely poison your minds.

Also, what the above nut cases forget to mention is emotional/psychological hole which 'third party' may feel. As this threesome is likely to happen, don't forget to embrace your wife's colleague in playful gesture, be generous and keep a small promise that both of you will be there for her, no matter what. This assurance incognito, will encourage her in giving herself completely without prejudices or fear of future sabotage.

And don't forget to upload your royal threesome on web hosting site, who wouldn't like to see one stone kill two birds? ;) lol
answered Jul 19, 2015 by guru=diva (525 points)

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