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I have never found satisfaction with a prostitute. Why?

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asked Aug 18, 2015 in Questions by messi11 (120 points)
edited Aug 18, 2015 by longhands1

I am 25 years male. I have visited prostitutes many times, but I dont feel satisfied. Is there a problem with me?

 

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Messi,No I do not think there is any problem with you physically! See sexual act does not mean mearly  having sex. It does require a love, mutual care and intimacy beyond the sexual pleasure. You have had many experience with sex workers. And these women slept with you for money only. They never loved or cared for you. For them you are only one of their customers .And all they supposed that you all are interested in physical attibutes of them and wanted to enjoy their body onl,which in a sense is true and is a fact. 

   When you will have a relationship with a girl of your age. You both would be exclusive to each other. You would know the backgrounds of each other . You will get emotionally involved with each other and then such intimacy would bring the passion and desire which does not exists in paid sex! 

  And i do not know where you have been going to these women or where you have been taking them. But if there is a lack of security you could have been nervous and would not have been able to enjoy it .

  So first try to be in relationship with agirl/ woman exclusively. Get to know her better and let her know you better and you will find the this missing  passion and desire in the relation.  

answered Aug 18, 2015 by prashant69 (6,810 points)
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Messi,

Prashant69 highlighted all the right points for you to consider. Feeling secure is one of the top reasons for your lack of pleasure. The fear of being infected, the fear of being seen approaching a prostitute and the fear of under performing (Premature ejaculation) might be causing you to not enjoy the sex.

When you say you visited 'many' prostitutes, do they all share the same attributes - height, personality, figure and so on? Because, you may not know this but I believe that some of us have very specific things we look for, that please us. Example - you may like women who are tall, well gifted on the front and who talk dirty. May be you are visiting someone who does not fit that profile and that could also be a reason for your unhappiness.

Over all, you are playing a dangerous game. Sex with any outsider, especially multiple outsiders is risky. I am not saying because you are visiting prostitutes, as many 'normal' people do have sexually transmitted diseases as well. Use protection to avoid the fear of infection. Make friends, may be you will meet someone who wants to be your friend with benefits. I am sure there are many such 'friends' out there, so expand your search area. Like Prashant69 said, once you meet someone you like, may be you wont need to visit anyone else and with the right chemistry, you can enjoy sex the way it should be.

Good luck
answered Aug 18, 2015 by prometheus4321 (665 points)
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Dear friend its a question I have been asked several times from my friends...So far as concepts of Kamsutra is concerned sex is not only intimate contact of sensible body parts and organ penetration..moreover its deeply concerned with emotional and psychological attachment between lovers or between husband and wife...Its a deep manifestation of love and effection
    Prostitutes have no emotional or sentimental feelings for their customers....There main motto is to earn more and more money as much as they can by offering there body for sexual gratification.... Even most of them are compelled to do so to meet their financial needs due to utter poverty...Such prostitutes can't get any enjoyment from their day to day intense fucking life...
 You are matured you can make a sexy gf who can give you sexual estacy and can be emotionally attached to your life...you can marry her on later if both of you love each other from the innermost core of heart...Now a days premarital sex with to be wife is there..you can follow... If you are already established in your life you can tie the bond with a beautiful girl as soon as possible...
 All the best..
answered Aug 18, 2015 by Sexy Simpram (1,225 points)
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Many men have satisfied sex with prostitute because prostitute allows doing what their wife or partner does not. Same way many men do not find satisfied sex with prostitute just because there is emotional element missing and all they want is emotional over physical. Therefore, you do seem to be like emotional man and that is the reason why you do not feel with prostitute. My simple recommendations, stop visiting prostitute, find a suitable partner, and settle down in life.
answered Aug 19, 2015 by alpesh kapdi (20,455 points)
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The main fun of sex is when the opposite partner enjoys it, the expressions & moans they make. Prostitues are proffessionals, they fuck with their clients day in day out, its just like how boring you get by having same kind of dish everyday, its like same dress you are wearing daily.
Get into a relation, even if its a married aunty. Then see how your sex life spices
answered Nov 21, 2015 by deepsingh (190 points)

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