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Will my wife have sex with this Doctor in future?

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asked Apr 10, 2016 in Questions by 7103662 (120 points)
edited Apr 11, 2016 by longhands1

Hello Anjali Aunty,

I am new to this forum. My name is Ajay Jaiswal and I am from Delhi. I am 29 years of age. I got married two years back. Me and my wife are staying in different cities due to our nature of job.

My wife is working in a private hospital as a physiotherapist. She has a friend there who is a doctor. Both are very frank and friendly with each other. They speak on almost every topic even on sex. My wife and doctor are of the same age. Actually the Doctor wants to fuck my wife (he has indirectly communicated to her in fun).

Once my wife had severe pain in her legs. Doctor massaged her legs. He often asks her about her sex life and whether I use Viagra etc. On the other hand my wife is very loyal to me. She loves me a lot and shares everything with me. She had no affair in past.

She is a God fearing lady. My concern is: Can she indulge in sexual activity with that Doctor as he wants to seduce her and fuck her. Reason why I am thinking about this is that we both are living separately and meet once in month. She may also having sex urge to fuck more often. She has never got orgasm while making love in the two years.

Please clear my doubts.

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The reasons you have listed are not sufficient to doubt her fidelity. Moreover, she loves you and she is loyal so I do not think that she will cross her line with that doctor.

Women are more strong-minded than to men when they decide something and here it sounds that your wife wants to stay loyal with you so no need to worry unnecessarily.

Your suspicious nature will only ruin your mental peace and your married life as it has no base to doubt your wife. I have seen many loyal couple who are staying alone due to job.

In my office, there is a married woman who is very close to me like your wife close to that doctor or even more. We even flirts but when it comes to sex or I try to be more close to her she takes back steps and asks me to stop that means if woman is staying alone and if she has a close friend at work place than it does mean that she will sleep that man.

Moreover, as you mentioned that your wife is God fearing lady that means she will never cheat on you as her moral value would not allow her to take step in that direction.

If you have a problem with her friend doctor then ask your wife to maintain distance with him and do not allow him to touch her body, even to massage her legs and suggest her to take help of other female if she has severe pain.

Do not indicate that you do not trust her but explain her that you are worried about her safety and that is why you are asking her to take extra measure to be safe. 

answered Apr 11, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (21,135 points)
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Dear Ajay,
There is no way you should doubt your wife.your wife is grown up and sensible.
If she comes to know that despite being loyal and committed to you,you doubt her it will break her heart.
Relationships are based on trust.
You have a loving and loyal wife,whom you have left alone in some other city,she is not even complaining and all you give her is a characterless certificate.
Such a sick mentality.
If she wants to sleep with some other man she will you cannot stop her,thats what you wanted to hear.
Doubt her, mistreat her for your satisfaction and your relationship will fail.
You seem like a typical guy who can do anything, flirt around it is ok but  if his wife have a male friend even she will sleep with her.ha ha cheapo...
Give some space to your wife man...
answered Apr 12, 2016 by cool guy (175 points)
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Your doubt may be  correct in your place but your wife is sensible lady she knows what's right and wrong for her
But you have to first speak  to your wife about insecurity you have in your mind because you both may have problems in your relationship later
You are married just 2 years back and you both stay in different city it's major issue because you  both want sexual life  to be good so I suggest you both stay together at least in 2 or 3 weeks I have seen many life's destroy by this
You won't belive my cousin sister  got divided by husband because of this he was good men but my didn't control her feeling
answered Apr 12, 2016 by Rajan07 (690 points)
commented May 3, 2016 by Motilal (5,530 points)
moved Aug 23 by longhands1
Your fear is genuine.She doesn't get orgasm.This means that there is some flaw in your technique.Arouse her through foreplay.Live together,otherwise Doctor may seduce her for sex.
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This clearly show how much your wife loves you and trusts you with all her secrets. Its time you return the favour. Trust is the foundation of any relationship. If you continue to doubt her. It will ruin your relationship for sure. So just tell your wife to be careful and stay away form Him as much as possible. She is mature and she knows whats good and bad for her.
answered Aug 18, 2016 by Rohaniss9876 (190 points)
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If your wife had something to hide from you or something to be ashamed about her behaviour,  she would not have shared about her friendliness with her doctor colleague.

Learn to trust your wife. Marriage is based on trust and when you both are living apart due to job constraints, it is all the more important to trust your spouse.

Women are generally stronger in a relationship and will not give in to their lust as easily as men. The more you suspect your wife the unhappier you will be and will make your wife unhappy too.

Women like to boast about the appreciation they get from other men. Why don't you praise your wife more often on the phone? You may be physically staying apart, but these days communication via phone, skype, WhatsApp is easy. Use it.

Relax. All is fine.

answered Oct 24, 2016 by longhands1 (68,200 points)
edited Oct 29, 2016 by longhands1

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