After birth of our two children, my wife’s vagina got loose, I didn't get much pleasure while having vaginal sex, but I never told this to my wife. Then I decided to try anal sex. I initiated her to have anal sex by playing with her ass, fingering her anal passage, sometimes placed my penis over her anal passage, rubbing my penis over her anal passage, sometimes spit my saliva over her anal passage while we having sex.
She enjoys all these acts. She treats all these acts as foreplay only, but she didn't understand that I am initiating her to have anal sex, and I was also did not directly tell her that I want to have anal sex, as Indian women consider anal sex an offence and dirty.
Every time when we have sex, I try to tell her about anal sex but I am afraid. I don’t know why I have this fear. We are having vaginal and since last 2 months oral sex, similar to all Indians we have sex in men on top position only and we are happy in this relationship. I don’t know how she react if I ask her about anal sex.
Why do I fear about telling her about my wish to have anal sex? As a husband, is it wrong to have a desire to have anal sex with my wife? If I ask her will she think I am mad?
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