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Why does my girlfriend feel my cock is small at the time of orgasm?

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asked Jun 26, 2016 in Questions by rohit8090 (170 points)
edited Jun 27, 2016 by longhands1

I heard a lot about penis size. Many of the experts say length and girth have no impact on sexual pleasure. But, I want to tell you, that I had sex with my girlfriend many times and whenever we did, at the time when she was about to reach climax, she used to say Janu, I want your penis more inside me.. Deeper .. Its feeling very small right now...

So my question is why does my girlfriend make these statement? She does not say this at the beginning but only when she is about to orgasm. My penis size is 6 inches and we both are 25 years old.

I have also asked her many times after intercourse that at beginning, you feel my cock is very big and later on you feel it is small. Why? She says that I told you what I feel.

Please experts clarify why this is so?

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Dear R,

The timing of the climax is different in male as compared to female. At the time of climax a girl need special attention and speed. Its probably that you might be ejaculate before her orgasm. If you can able to delay the ejaculation then it might be helpful.

At the time of sex both male and female associated like clip bonding and it become more attached at the end part. During this time different people have different though in their mind. Some of them thinking about the actor/actress, some of them thinking about porn movies and related activities, some of them want to recall their ex or someone they are dreaming.

It also believed that when someone comparing one to another at that time he/she feel the difference because a person can judge which one is good or bad depending of their experience. It may not be true in every case but there are also some exception.
answered Jun 26, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,650 points)
commented Jun 26, 2016 by rohit8090 (170 points)
Dear babu 002 .. I never ejaculated before her climax.. And she had her first sex with me.. She just only say all time she want it to be more inside her... Not at beginning but at the middle of pleasure..
commented Jun 26, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,650 points)
How you are sure that she orgasm before you? In various online article describing about the fake orgasm by a girl/woman. If she is want more deep at the end part of the intercourse then there are chances that she may not be reach the peak.
In case of orgasm the girl secrete vaginal liquid and feel relax and respirate faster. Immediately she will go for sound sleep.
Try to findout the gap and intimate in this forum for further discussion.
commented Jun 27, 2016 by rohit8090 (170 points)
I can say because i flet vaginal liquid many time while having sex. After the orgasm she lost her attention in sex and that time my stroke hurts her. And i hav to wait till she aroused again.
commented Jun 27, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,650 points)
Another thing to be remembered about the timing and well prepared for the sex. Its matter because the journey would be more pleasurable when you are relaxed and feel more comfortable.
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Rohit,

vaginal orgasm as achieving orgasm from penetration alone, it's pretty damn rare. Vaginal orgasms don't happen without some kind of clit stimulation.

In women, the most common way to achieve orgasm is by physical sexual stimulation of the clitoris; general statistics indicate that 70–80 percent of women require direct clitoral stimulation (consistent manual, oral or other concentrated friction against the external parts of the clitoris) to achieve orgasm.

Clitoral orgasms are easier to achieve because the glans of the clitoris, or clitoris as a whole, has more than 8,000 sensory nerve endings whereas penis's glans has only 4,000 sensory nerve endings.

Both of you seem novice in the arena of sex. Tell your partner to stimulate her clitoris by herself during sex or you may stimulate her clitoris for a satisfactory orgasm.

Penis size has nothing to do with orgasm. Learn some love making art for better sexual experiences.

Best of luck.
Nazia Hasan
answered Jun 26, 2016 by Nazia_Hasan (1,420 points)
commented Jun 27, 2016 by rohit8090 (170 points)
I will keep your words.
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When boys are about to reach climax they increase speed just because to enhance sensation and same way goes for girls. She is telling you because she is so excited and want to get intense pleasure but that does not mean that she is indicating that your size is small so you should not analyze it.

When she comes near orgasm, give her deep and hard stroke to give her ultimate pleasure. There is no need to think too much about it as it simply does not mean anything as it shows her excitement level and pleasure she is receiving while keeping your penis inside her vagina. 

answered Jun 27, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (19,805 points)

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