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My father is having an affair, which is creating tension in our Family.

asked Dec 30, 2016 in Questions by Simple boy (175 points)
edited Dec 30, 2016 by longhands1

This is my real life situation and am in a lot of tension. My dad who is aged 59 is having a discreet affair from last 4-5 yrs. My mom had a doubt but it got confirmed after we heard it from a reliable source and now we are in shame.

My mom confronted dad but he denied the allegations, but when we produced some evidence he was caught and started apologising to mom. They had a big argument but my dad was sorry and listened to everything. I am very attached emotionally to my mom so I could not bear her tears and I too said many things to dad.

This was 6 months ago. Since that day, dad got very jovial and started to show his concerns and do his daily duty. But from last few days this month I am observing him whispering in cell but usually he don't talk like that in his daily business dealings but I have seen him talking only in yes or no and in a whispering tone.

That woman with whom he got involved with is an unmarried woman and stays with her parents. She is nearing 40 and they live in our locality. Seeing him cheating my dear innocent mom like that pains my heart and I get very disturbed. I don't want her to cry & feel bad. She gets into my dad's talking easily after few days so I think my dad is again taking advantage of her nature.

What should I do now? Please give some suggestions. Thanks alot.

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I do not think that you can do much here as it is their personal matter and being a son you do not have a right to interfere in their matter. Let your mom handle the situation but you can ask her to keep the eye on your dad and indirectly let your dad know that if he gets caught this time then it will be really shameful action.

I would say consider your mom adult and mature enough to handle her husband on her own and you stay out of the matter if possible as your direct involvement is not needed in such kind of situation. However, express your disappointment over your dad’s act so he could get the idea that you are against him. 

answered Dec 31, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (21,545 points)
selected Jan 2 by Simple boy
commented Jan 2 by Simple boy (175 points)
Thanks alpesh ji,,I'll not get into that but I do care's emotions & I don't want her to sad.

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