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Am frustrated about Addiction to Masturbation and pain in the Penis. Help.

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asked Jan 28 in Questions by Panner (120 points)
edited Jan 30 by longhands1

I am 27 and I masturbate daily. Very rarely do I give gaps for masturbation that too maybe one or 2 days. I started this habit when I was 16 years old. I am very addicted to this habit and I can't leave it though I tried my best in doing yoga, gym. etc.  I do all kind of sex activities like reading incest sex stories, seeing porn videos, social networking hot pic/video, and I never leave anything to satisfy my penis.

Even if I go to office, I will keep on looking at girls / aunties and I want to have sex with them. Yet I never had sex with anyone.

My problem is that for the last 2 weeks, I am having pain in the lower abdomen (right side from kidney to penis). I think some nerve got infected due to my excessive masturbation. During Nov 2016 too, I had this same problem, but pain was there for 2 weeks and it stopped ( I tiik pain killers). Now I don't know whom to approach and what I am going to do.

I am very much worried about my life. I cry sometimes. One more reason is I that am staying in Chennai alone without proper food and sleep. My parents are in native place. I work in the night shift and due to pressure I masturbate. Please give me good advise. Pain doesn't seem to reduce and I can easily imagine how pain goes through penis to kidney.

Please help me. I am frustrated with Life.

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I do not think that your pain has any relation with your masturbation habit so do not blame it to masturbation. There must be something else and if you are sure that pain is in the kidney then there are possibilities that there is a kidney stone. If pain is too much then it confirm that there is a stone and you should see the doctor for it.  

I used to masturbate daily and sometimes two times a day too for many years and never felt any pain as you described. I would say your problem required medical attention so you can consult any doctor nearby you and he would suggest you how to go about it and if required then he would ask to see other doctors too but the first thing you should do is see the doctor.

However, there is no need to take any tension as I do not think that you are suffering from any major illness so you should not think the worst of it. However, masturbation is a healthy thing and all the men do it but one should not do it excessively as anything you do excessively would not good for you so maintain your frequency of masturbation and self-control is the only way to do it.

Stop reading sex stories and watching porn movies as that would make you to go for the masturbation and let me tell you confidently that self-control is the only to control your habit. Strong determination and will power may help you. See the doctor ASAP and go for the cure and stay happy. 

answered Jan 28 by alpesh kapdi (21,850 points)
commented Jan 28 by Panner (120 points)
Thanks for your reply, Alpesh. But pain started only after I complete masturbation. Even if I do this now, Pain will become excess.
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Dear panner,

The basic problem is you are staying alone and watching pron ,  you should develop friendship and avoid staying alone in the room , get some good room partner or join some other colleague , where you can daily be together and forget about masturbation .

regarding pain , as alpesh said , it may be different from the masturbation .

if possible take a break of 10 to 15 days and visit the native place and get fresh up .

its a high time come out of it .
answered Jan 31 by kapilh (1,015 points)

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