I can tell you that I absolutely adore anal sex. Whether is my husband doing it to me, or my girlfriend wearing a strap on dildo, I love the feeling of it filling me up inside.
I can assure you that I am not alone in this, as my girlfriend loves doing it as well. Sometimes we are both knelt with our bums in the air, and my husband going from one of us to the other, and back again. We think of it as a kind of Russian roulette, because we never know which of us he will come inside.
You ask if it is possible for ordinary couples to enjoy anal sex. Stop and think for a moment. Everybody suffers from constipation from time to time, and when you use the toilet to evacuate your bowels, if you ever inspect what has come out, you will see that your anus is capable of expanding to pass stools of considerable length and girth. Sometimes these are far larger than a man's penis, so fat can come out, it follows that something smaller can easily go in. It is a plain and simple fact that if you can train your anal sphincter muscles to relax, you can take things in your anus that are considerably larger than even the biggest man's penis, but it's just a matter of relaxing and training yourself to not flinch when something is inserted.
I have talked about this at length in previous replies to questions on anal sex, and if you look in our archives, you will find both my comments and other people's, about how to have anal sex without it being painful.
What you have to understand though, is that not all women want this. Some girls think that it is too dirty, others have been bought up to think that it is just a perversion, and others have had a bad experience, which has meant that they are not eager to try it again. If your wife wants to try, then read up on what I and others have said about preparation for anal sex. It's not just a matter of putting a bit of saliva on the end of your cock and ramming in, not if you want to do it more than one time in your life!!!
If you are careful, patient, and treat your wife's anus with love and devotion, not only will you enjoy anal sex, so will she, and once she starts enjoying it, you will be able to enjoy the practice for the rest of your active lives.
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