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How to make my Mom feel comfortable after what we had done?

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asked Mar 6 in Questions by sailesh2217 (120 points)
edited Mar 11 by longhands1

Hi Anjali,

I am 21 years old. I am the only son in my family. My dad is a Banker and mom a house wife. My dad is 46 and my mom is 43yrs old.

Recently, we had an invitation to attend my dad’s relative’s wedding. We had to travel to another state. My dad could not accompany us due to his work. So along with my mom, I went to Karnataka to attend the wedding. We reached in the afternoon and were too tired of train journey. In the evening we went to the bride’s brother’s 2 Bhk apartment.

They asked me and mom to sleep in one room. It had got only single bed. They gave us a mattress to put on floor and sleep. My Mom told to sleep on the bed as she preferred sleeping on floor below the bed. Bride’s brother also said, you sleep on the bed and I will sleep down on floor next to mom. I agreed.

As I was about to sleep, bride’s brother called me outside the room and asked whether I would like to have beer on the terrace. I went inside and told my mom, that I will be back soon. I switched off the bedroom light and went on the terrace. There were 4 more friends of his drinking beer. He introduced me to them and we all started drinking. I had 3 glasses of beer and it was 1:30 am by the time I went back to the room.

As I opened the door, it was too dark. So slowly, I walked and slept next to my mom instead of sleeping on the bed as I am not used to sleeping on the bed even at home. After 10 minutes, I could feel my mom touching my dick. I had worn silk shorts. Soon, I got an erection. She inserted her hand inside my shorts and began to masturbate me. She took my left hand, and as she had untied her pyjama, she put it in her panty.

She was wet. I hesitated. Then she went down to my dick and started to give me a blow job and within a sec, I came in her mouth. She wiped her mouth and turned around and slept. I was so horny, that I felt like sucking her boobs. I controlled myself and slept till next morning. I woke up late.

She didn’t ask me anything about last night. Next day after the wedding, we came home. For the past 1 week, she doesn’t talk much to me.

How to make her feel comfortable? 

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8 Answers

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It's looks so strange a mom giving a blow job to her own son and licking a don dick
Your mom may not be satisfied by your father so she is searching alternative husband in you  and you to want to lick her pussy and fuck the hole from where  you came out
You have to seduce your mom by wearing lesser clothes at home talking naughty about your mom to her you should try masturbate in front of her in bathroom
Good luck both can enjoy if both agree
answered Mar 7 by pavan350 (520 points)
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Correct me if I'm wrong but is it possible that your mom thought you were someone else and that's why all of this happened? I mean you said it was too dark and you were supposed to sleep on the bed rather than on the floor, right? No offence and I'm not accusing your mom of anything but you haven't mentioned if this thing happened before ever, so I assume this is the first time.
answered Mar 7 by gr8gaur (1,455 points)
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You cannot do much here as you have not instigated the incident. Therefore, just behave normally with her and give her enough time to come to the terms of the fact and time will heal the all wounds. She initiated sex and you cooperated as you were under the influence of alcohol so I would not blame you but being a mature woman, she could have controlled herself but she did not and we do not know why.

The all situation could have been handled better way but you both were failed to do so rather than analyzing the situation come to the terms and form a normal relationship with each other like you both used to have. The incident provoked me to say that your mother is not sexually satisfied with your father and that is why she came to you considering you as a man who can satisfy her physical need but later she realized that you are her son and she should not form any kind of relationship with you apart from mother and son so out of embarrassment she stopped talking to you which is not shocking.

Do not worry once she will realize her mistake and overcome of it, she will start speaking to you so wait and watch how she starts talking to you and the best thing to handle the situation is, you should not mention the incident with her as that would put her in embarrassment situation and she might not be able to answer you so avoid it and allow the time to take care of the rest of thing. 

answered Mar 7 by alpesh kapdi (20,400 points)
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Best thing you could do is speak to her directly. If she is guilty about the incident then tell her it's okay. But if she wants to continue then your wish. You are mature enough to take your own decisions. But maintain privacy. Good luck.
answered Mar 7 by Khannaaryan (235 points)
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hai sailesh as your mother has started this you have to be free to talk with her or do some naughty things like masturbate front of her guide her to give you blow job or hand job slowly put your hand in the pussy boobs and make her comfortable that she has not done any mistake and enjoy fucking
answered Mar 7 by bijun38 (240 points)
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The incident you told us tells us that your mom tried to seduce you and she touched you sexually. But it does not tell us that if you were interested in it .. You are. Now asking how to make her comfortable. Your intentions are not clear. If you want to have sexual relation with her, its not that it started just after that night. Anyways the ball is in your pool. Your mom is interested in you. You can easily get her in the bed only if she is interested till that extent. I would love to know when did yoy start thinking about this all.
answered Mar 7 by robotboy1 (685 points)
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First of all, it was a mistake, so don't think about it too much. Second you have not been able to explain it properly. it is she who wants to have physical not with you but with bride's brother. He asked you to sleep on the bed and you agreed to it. After having beer you just came in room and slept beside your mom who thought that it was not you but bride's brother who was sleeping besides her as you have agreed to sleep on bed and bride's brother agreed to sleep on floor next to her.

Sso she acted in just moment of emotion and ended up having the accident with you. But one thing which you must have done with at the same moment is that you must have changed your place of sleeping with bride's brother or got up early before your mom and get out of room. Also do not think it about from your  point of view but also as a human being.

She has every right to fulfill her basic need of having sex which she want to fulfill but not with you but with someone else and nobody came to know about. There is a hidden truth that women in our society fulfill their needs with relatives or close friends but nobody reveals it, as it harms one's family reputation and nobody talks about it. I have one experience in my relative's where my close relative female was having sex with someone whom i call bhaiya and I caught them in missionary position.

it came as a shock to me but slowly i agreed that they both are human and have needs to fulfill. We still meet and behave normal and wipe out from memory. They both are happily married to other persons and still meet each other but not engaged in sex.

TIme will heal it and keep your relationship with your  mom as it is. After sometime if she want to talk to you then talk otherwise forget about it.

Don't start anything from your side.

answered Mar 7 by vishal011 (110 points)
commented Mar 8 by gr8gaur (1,455 points)
Just my two cents bro, happily married people don't cheat on their spouses.
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This seems to be very strange. All you can do now is talk directly to your mom. If you like your mom sexually, ask her if she wants to maintain a physical relationship with you.
There is also a possibility that she might have misunderstood you for someone else and have had given you a blowjob. And by the time she realised it, it was too late. Or she does not know that it was her son whom she gave a blowjob. In these cases go to your mom and say that she gave you a blowjob. If she is interested in you, she will give you another one.
answered Mar 8 by Anonymous101 (365 points)

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