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How to stop my son from having sex with me?

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asked Mar 31 in Questions by Anu2017 (120 points)
edited Apr 2 by longhands1

I am a 40 year old woman. My husband is 45years old and is a Business man. We have two sons who are 21 and 18 years old.

Five years ago, my elder son tried to seduce me for sex for many days. One day finally, he broke my resistance and I had sex with him. I enjoyed the relationship and so had sex repeatedly many times.

We have been continuously having sex for about two weeks. During this time we have been fucking at least five times. I thought about this relationship and have understood that it will destroy my son's future. So I decided to stop this sexual relationship with my son.

Now the problem is: that within few days my son again forced me to fuck with him. Why is he doing this?

How to make him stop?

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He is doing this because he finds the vagina to relieve his load inside so why should he stops having sex with you. You should have thought this earlier that such thing would ruin his future as I do not think now it would be an easy stuff for you to make him understand that it is wrong and he should not have sex with you as I doubt that he would forget your vagina that much easily. Moreover, I do not understand how it would ruin his future as he is adult enough to have sex with any woman and unfortunately it is you who is his own mother.

However, if you want to stop it by anyway then make it clear to him that you do not want to continue it as you feel guilty for having sex with your own son and stay firm on your decision. He may try to blackmail you that he would tell everything to his father but you should remain firm on your decision not to have sex with him and be ready for the worse.

I am sure he would not be able to blackmail you as he is equally into the fault so it is the only way to make him stop and there is no need to give him any explanation otherwise he would drag you into her arguments trap so just firmly say no and stick to it, no matter what may come.  

Let me tell you that men can go to any extent to find the vagina and once they find, they are not ready to leave it so you have to do the hard work to make him stop having sex with you so first prepare yourself for that and then go for it. 

answered Apr 1 by alpesh kapdi (22,115 points)
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Why are you cheating on your husband ? Why should your son stop when he has already tasted blood ? You have been having sex for two weeks, 5 times atleast which means you have already bedded him atleast 70 times and now you suddenly feel this should stop ? Of course telling your husband is not an option is it ? Try to convince your son or else avoid him as much as possible. Feel sorry for your husband, poor guy doesn't deserve all this.
answered Apr 1 by gr8gaur (1,725 points)
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You are playing with fire. You broke your resistance for pleasure and now you are stuck in this problem. Admit that you too get pleasure from young guy. Anyways, You did not tell how it is effecting his career. Is he in college or preparing for some exam. You have to handle the situation with care. Your son seduced you it means he is in dire need of sex and you are a hot lady that he found exciting. Leaving the moral lessons aside, escalate the issue that why is he so sex hungry. You have to talk to hm that you both have to be extremely careful about this relationship. Communication can solve most of the problem. Talk to your son about it. Reduce the frequency of sex with him.

If you want to stop it completely, talk to your son and tell him that you are not ok with this relation and he should look for girlfriend. After that slowly slowly reduce the frequency to zero. In case of incest relations situations go out of hands easily. Take care.
answered Apr 2 by robotboy1 (690 points)
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No no this is completely wrong. Your husband will break his heart if he comes to know about this. Please don't cheat your hubby. As you had sex with your son many number of times, I think it's enough now. He enjoyed your company and he is again and again forcing you to do sex.  Better quit this relationship as soon as possible. You do have a good hubby for these kind of private things. Better ask your son to find a girlfriend for this kind of relationship. Or just get him married to a good girl. Hope your hubby doesn't know this. All the best
answered Apr 3 by Cherry24 (150 points)
commented Apr 4 by naveen143 (215 points)

Continue the relation.  You will enjoy it.

 

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You are 40 - an age when many women like to have liberated sexual ventures mainly as they approach menopausal stage being  gradually freed from the risk of being pregnant.  You say that you enjoyed the relationship with your son - he being young and energetic compared to your hubby that must have led you to have sex repeatedly with him.

Definitely you liked to have sex with him, and so does he too. There is no turning back. That's why you had been continuously having sex for about two weeks often  fucking at least five times. I guess you do love his hard and fast intercourse with him - then why do you want to stop suddenly?

To be realistic, you are not destroying your son's future, rather teaching him the charm and techniques of sex for his future wife. Alternatively, you might have been thinking of taking on your second son in your fold when the older one gets married,

Now the problem of yours is not a problem - he is not forcing you to fuck with him, you are looking for it and he will continue to do so for his newly found sexual release. Since it is consensual for both of you, just enjoy keeping confidential between you.

answered Apr 6 by zena69 (1,480 points)
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I dont think this is wrong i mean you both are agreed and now enjoying so keep this up he is mature now and he also know what he is doing so dont blam your self and dont worry about his future his is luckiest boy on earth i am also 22 yrs old boy and i have only sexy once in my life and i am very sexual guy small things of females turns me on i wish i could be your son enjoye the best moments of your life and incest is the best relation in world..
answered Apr 25 by Thessk9 (105 points)
commented Apr 26 by longhands1 (72,915 points)

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You have cheated your husband for your sexual pleasure and nothing else
Your son is just playing with you and your body he is lost his relationships with you he just thinks you as his fucking toy
if your husband comes to know your relationship with your son he wont survive because it's just not a crime it's a biggest sin created by you for this society
You should stop this right now tell your son straight away and save your husband wife relationship as early as possible
answered Apr 26 by pavan350 (870 points)
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Firstly, how did that happen? Like how did he manage to get enough confidence to make advances on you and break your resistance.

In any case, you are on a very slippery slope. Now that the barriers are broken, you need to arrange for him to have a girlfriend and facilitate him in having sex with her. That will be your only chance to put him back on the right track. Become his friend and buddy with whom he can share his problems confidently. You will need to properly guide him to seduce a girlfriend and if necessary, push him to have sex with her. If you pull out completely, it will create a much greater problem. In the meanwhile, you will have to continue your sexual relationship with him in a happy way and stay focused on slowly directing him on to his original path.
answered Apr 28 by Tuff (345 points)
edited Apr 28 by Tuff
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Why you want to stop it? If both of you enjoy it then continue. When he gets married he will be automatically attracted to his wife and by that time your urge of sex might end as well.

I think you should continue this sexual relationship.
answered May 17 by Mayur_borse (145 points)
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Now you are just a sex machine for your son. Now he will never leave you. He tasted your pussey and now it is impossible for you to stop.
answered Jun 4 by Let me know (125 points)

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