This is my 1st question on AA.
I am a faithful and happily married man for 9 years with 2 kids. The problem that I am facing is a bit weird. I was intoduced to the sexual world at the age of 12 and have been mastrubating since then.
At the age of 21, I got married (I know its too early) and I am happy with my wife. My wife is a normal Indian wife with less desire for sex and more towards just spending time with her (without touching her). This was good for 3-4 years.
After the birth of our 1st daughter, somehow my urge towards sex increased manifold (I think this may be because I did not have sex for 9 months and watched lots of porn during that period) and from then onwards, I want to have sex with my wife on a daily basis.
As mentioned earlier, she still has the same feeling for sex but wants to do it once a week or once in 2 weeks. I dont want to hook up with some other girl / lady for sex though I chat with random females related to sex.
I want to know if I should visit a doctor to get rid of my sexual desires or is there a way out of this? Please give me your valued Advice.
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