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Kamasutra Corner: Woman on Top Sexual Positions - Part II

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asked May 18 in Articles by longhands1 (65,710 points)

Woman on Top Sexual Positions - Part II
 

The woman on top faces away from the man (aka "The Reverse Cowgirl") - an exciting technique for all!

We've already mentioned that men may find this sexual position uncomfortable, but if you can manage it, sex in this position can be a very different experience.

It isn't a position that all men will appreciate, because it puts a lot of pressure on your penis when your partner sits on you facing away - and for men who have a small, hard erect penis that points upright when they are fully aroused, it may even be impossible to get into this position.

It's worthwhile being careful when you try it, to ensure that you don't bend your penis too far forwards and cause yourself any discomfort.

Other variations on woman on top sexual positions

There are plenty of other possible variations you can try, some of which are shown below.....

You've heard the old expression that women can just lie back and enjoy sex! Well, this is the time when men can lie back and enjoy it!

The relaxing position, the lack of effort - you don't have to support yourself on your arms - the view of your partner's breasts as she rides you, and the sight of yourself penetrating her as you make love - all these things and more make this a wonderful position and one that both sexes can relish!

More to the point, the woman has the chance to control how sex proceeds. She can control the pace, the rhythm and the depth of penetration, and if she's into getting off during intercourse then she might even be able to rub her clitoris along your body, making it more likely she can reach orgasm during sex.

But the main thing, I think, is the chance of equality. So often we think of fucking as something a man "does to" a woman, and the female orgasm as something that a man "gives to" his partner.

But neither of these things are true - women are (or should be) responsible for their own orgasms, and men are (or should be!) equal partners in sex with women.

When your female partner's on top, she's running the show, she's the one who can thrust, she's the one who can control how quickly her man comes to orgasm, and she's the one who's more likely to be able to come during sex. These wonderful techniques are there for the taking.....

It took a while before I could let go of my preconceived ideas about male and female roles during sex, and relax while she put my erection inside her and used it to get off - I felt like a living dildo!

The fact is, if you feel like this, then you simply must tell your partner, discuss it, talk it through, and sort out the way you both feel.

I do still prefer man on top sexual positions - but not by much! That's not because I feel insecure when she's on top - it's more about the fact that man on top sex feels better for me. But then again, if woman on top sex feels better for my partner, I guess it's only fair that we take it in turns!




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