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My female friend wants sex with me. What to do?

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asked May 25 in Questions by Abir25 (125 points)
Hi,

I have been friends with this girl since 2011. We met in college and became very good friends. We used to share a lot and were almost inseparable when together.

Gradually we started becoming comfortable on personal things such as her periods, her figure, my penis size and all. And then we started having adult chats at nights.

One day, I was very horny and I sent her my nude pictures. She liked them and responded, but I felt guilty. Then she also sent me her nude snaps the next day. I got a hard on as stiff as I ever had.

We indulged in adult chatting and pics sharing almost daily. But I used to feel guilty as well. Now she wants to go out with me, somewhere outside the town and have sex all day long. I am confused.

Is it fine to have sex wih my friend?



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She wants to start the friends with benefit relationship and I would say that is the greatest relationship, one can start so do not lose the opportunity. However, make sure that she only wants sex and nothing else. If she wants a romantic relationship and that is why she wants to start a sexual relationship then you should decline her offer but if she only wants to have fun with you then there is no problem.

I had a friend in the other city 200 kms away where I had a job but we used to meet to have sex and fun but that was for only fun and no emotional string attached, she got married a year back and we stopped having sex as she found another penis to replace mine but we are still friends as before.

Therefore, before having sex with her discuss your worry and concern and let her know that your only purpose is sex and nothing else. If she agrees which seems to be like then go ahead and enjoy her vagina as much as you can. 

answered May 26 by alpesh kapdi (20,515 points)
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Abir,

You have great thing going. Half of the men on AA would love to be in your position. But it is wise that you have asked your question. It shows that you are thinking with your head and not with your cock!

Six years is a long time to be friends. It does seem that your relationship has progressed from friendship to one with a greater meaning of being Lovers. You have not told us about the Love angle. Do you love each other or is it only from her side?

You have stepped into another zone when you both exchanged nude photos and have sex chats. You should be aware that a woman does not share her nude pictures with her face, unless she trusts a man. What does she have in mind? You must remember that few women pull down their panties only for the sake of sexual fun. They do so with the intention of getting a wedding ring on their hand. Are you prepared for that?

If you are lucky and she only wants to have sex, then you must ensure that she does not get pregnant at any stage. Read the questions and worries of the Members who had sex without protection and are now in a soup to understand their foolish actions.

Think long and hard about the consequences of baking your loaf in her hot oven.    

answered May 26 by longhands1 (64,155 points)
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You have mentioned nothing about your age and interests in your profile.I always search these before answering the question.You know the female friend since 2011.It appears that both of you are innocent about sexual pleasures.Nothing happened till now.When you felt horny,instead of doing masturbation you send her your nude picture.....what a fertile imagination! Don't fled away from home to enjoy sex with your female friend.Have you ever kissed and embraced her...fondled her breasts.....she kissed you,played and sucked your penis.Do these activities before doing sex with condom.Concentrate on your future.
answered May 26 by Motilal (5,250 points)
commented May 28 by Abir25 (125 points)
About my age and interests, i am very much mature to do that.

And to answer your questions, yes i have fondled her boobs, we have played strip games together and in truth and dare we have sucked each other. I just dont feel anything from a romantic angle for her, neither does she. I have seen her phone, wherein i found she chats like this with other boys as well. So there is nothing romantic or love angle type here.
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I don't know why you are feeling guilty bro. Sex is a need if she is interested in sex what is problem. You should feel guilty if you promise her for marriage and then fucking her. Be fuck buddies and enjoy the cherry of her. She trust you thats why she want you between her leg. Go and have a great weekend.
answered May 28 by rahulsngh (685 points)
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Both of you are sexually attracted to each other. You are also enjoying it.

Regarding sex, think about it properly.

If both of you have any plans to marry then you ppl could do it.

If you dont have any marriage plans then you should avoid,

or if its a casual one night stand then make it very clear to her and both should be ok with it.

If going out of town seems to be too much then you could book a girl friendly hotel in the town on any new age hotel booking websites and do it there in the room.
answered Jun 1 by Vikki G (180 points)

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