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Is there any problem if I continue my sex life with my widowed mother?

asked May 25, 2017 in Questions by sexmachinedk (125 points)
edited May 27, 2017 by longhands1

After my father died, my mother and me were the only two people in the house. We used to sleep on one bed.

One day we broke our boundaries and had sex with each other. Since then we fuck daily in bed, bathroom, kitchen, hall etc. But my doubt is: Is it ok to have sex with my mother?

She loves me so much that no one can ever do so and I too love herr. Can we just stick to each other pleasuring and satisfying our needs?

What will be the consequences later?

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Later you won’t be able to have sex with her as your wife would not allow you penis to penetrate your mother’s vagina except this I do not find any problem in sex as you both are human beings and the human body needs sex as it is natural requirement.

Since you both have already crossed the boundaries I do not want to lecture on the moral ground. Just keep having sex with her and please yourself and her as an adult individual. Make sure that no one can get doubt that you both are having sex otherwise society will never accept your act and it would be hard for you both to live around those people who know that you both are in intimate relationships. 

answered May 26, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (22,640 points)
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You did not tell your age in your question. Well anyways , though there is no harm in having sex with her the only problem is with society. You have to keep it secret and never reveal it in front of anyone. We in India have so many taboos about sex and incest is one of them. It will lead to a big problem if any of your locality find out what you both are enjoying.

Well one more thing is that never gets attached emotionally with your mother. It will become disaster for you. You are not married that is what I am assuming. Once you will be married you will face problems. If you will keep this a secret from your wife it is cheating on her. So it is true that incest has no future. Just enjoy fucking and fulfill your and your mom's need and always get back to where you started. Always have safe sex. Take Care
answered May 26, 2017 by robotboy1 (690 points)
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You should have asked us this question some years back. Bit maybe you had not heard about AA at that time.

In any case, now as long as you live with your mother, you both will not be able to stop. Sex is a powerful aphrodisiac and once you taste it, it is not able to give up.

You have not told us whether you are married. If you are not, you need to think of your future. At that time, if you find a suitable girl, your mother may not be too keen to let you get married and share you with her DIL. Also, if you continue living with your mother after marriage, it is not easy to stop having sex, irrespective of how great your wife is in bed. Your mother would have had a head start and she is comfortable with you, maybe even being nude with you during daytime.

This will lead to jealousy between your Mother and your wife. How will you handle this? You may have read here about good relations and sex within the Family, bit these are rare cases and your wife will have to be broadminded to accept such an arrangement.

Your Username suggest that you think you are a sex machine and will be able to oil any pussy. Think again.  

answered May 26, 2017 by longhands1 (75,320 points)
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I am interested to know about your age and interests. Get no clue about this. If you are adult,and get enough erection in your penis,then mother and son should not sleep together in same bed.

You have already taken the responsibility of your mother's second husband,make her pregnant again to make another bastard son.......never worry about consequences.
answered May 26, 2017 by Motilal (6,425 points)
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Not at all any problem. But avoid pregnancy if your mother is still menstruating.

Don't be caught and one thing after your marriage you have to stop this.
answered May 28, 2017 by rahulsngh (690 points)
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you have definitely crossed your boundaries wish i assume should have been established by your mother
i had a similar situation when i was a kid and slept next to her.
i was mebbe 12-13 and had a raging hormone.
so even when sleeping next to her i used to try sleeping holding her at her breasts with i used to act like i had innocently done when sleeping.
it was she who made me sleep away from her and eventually nothing wrong could happen and today being married i think I'm lucky our relationship never changed due to my understanding mom who knew i was just growing up and was interested in female parts and not her really..
answered Jun 1, 2017 by wick007 (415 points)
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hi read your question , there is absolutely no reason to stop
what you and your mom behind close doors is nobody's business
and if u both love each other continue with it
i dont see any severe consequences later u just need to be bit discreet about it
answered Jun 25, 2017 by nehakpr (140 points)
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You have done everything which is done between a husband and a wife with your mother from whom vagina you came out and your asking over here what i have done with her is right or wrong
You have gone to such extent where you cannot come back and you won't come back also
As you said its done in house so no outside will come to know your relationship with your mom
problems will appear once you get married because your wife may not let you to  go for your mother's vagina She will come to know relationships between a son and mother have crossed all shamefull limits
answered Jun 25, 2017 by pavan350 (1,000 points)
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It is ok as long as youboth are comfortable. Do not worry and do not tell it to now. Walls also have ears nowadays.
answered Jul 9, 2017 by solliadi (1,725 points)
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Hi sexmachinedk,

My friend lets talk about moral values first....having sex other than with your spouse is immoral. Morality is a complicated word. You will see that some people don't feel immoral when they sleep with their married colleagues, neighbors, other married / widowed family members. They think that moral value is only applicable in mother son, brother sister, father daughter relation. Really?

Every action has consequences. Now "Is it ok to have sex with my mother?" Yes.... Because she is widow.... And it is consensual relation, everybody is happy and you people are not harming anyone. So it is not a problem at all having sex with your widowed mother.

But you have to follow some rules and regulations:

A. It is friends for benefits relation.
B. Not a long term relationship
C. Be very can not tell your affair to anyone, because of society.
D. After your marriage you can't not continue any more.
E. Can't have baby with your mother because of medical problems.

Enjoy this relationship as long as you can. Help each other.
answered Dec 7, 2017 by Kitkatray (320 points)
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Actually, no Son does sex with his mother. It is only fantasy. Do you really have sex with your mother.

If yes, and your mother allows you, then what is the problem. You are asking is it OK ? It is not OK, then also you are doing it.

So enjoy it.
answered Dec 8, 2017 by Sheel (220 points)

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