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My House Owner's teenage disabled son wants to suck my nipples. Should I allow him?

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asked Jun 21 in Questions by seetha (120 points)
edited Jun 21 by longhands1

First, Let me introduce myself.

I am Seetha, 29 years old, married woman living with my husband in a rented house. It has a separate living and room area which we use and the other part is used by the house owner (a lady) and her partially disabled son, who is in his teens. He can’t walk but he is healthy person.

In the day time, the house owner works  and only this teenaged boy and I are in the home. He is a very innocent person and I am helping him considering his situation. We watch TV together to pass the time. I have had a bad experience when I was abused by one of my uncles in my childhood.  

I am writing here because of the very confused situation that I am facing since a month. I can’t even share this incident with my best friend.  

A month ago, the house owner lady had a Birthday party at home. Her elder son and wife had also come to the party. The day after the party,  I did not see the young boy, so at lunch time I went to look for him. The home was locked but I could see inside through his room window. I was shocked to see him tightly hugging and sleeping with his elder brother’s wife. She was wearing only a towel.

Later when I met him, I asked him where he was the whole day. He lied that he went somewhere with his brother.  I told that I saw him with his sister-in-law. He started crying like a baby for 10 minutes. Later, he took my hands and begged me not to tell anyone. He later told me that his sister- in- law breastfed him like a baby two years back. That was the luckiest time in his life but now they are living in a very far village. I asked him if he had sex with her. He told me that she was like a mother to him.

He then told me that he was living in loneliness and when I came there he could see my naked boobs again and he was enjoying it. I shouted at him and told him he was lying. But he could tell my nipple colour, size and one birth mark on my right boob near the nipple. He said he watched when I was bathing. The bath place is a shared one which is covered on three sides except the house side.

Finally, he requested to feed him my milk. I explained that I don’t have milk because I am not a mother. I finally allowed him to touch my boobs over the dress. He complained that he couldn’t feel the nipple because of the bra.

Now the problem is: He is continuously demanding to suck my boobs at least once. Considering his request and the situation, I wish to allow him once. But I have following concerns. Please give your feedback.

Will I be able to control him when he starts sucking my nipples? Or will it go further?

He told me that he did not have d sex with his sister- in- law. But I don’t believe it. I was fully wet even with his small touching over the blouse.

Will there be unwanted problems in my future? If I allow him only to suck my boobs, will there be changes in my boobs?

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commented Jun 25 by seetha (120 points)
Dear Friends,
Thank you so much for sharing your advice with my problem. I wish to update regarding the present situation due to i am expecting your help to clear my mind with this new situation.
As most of you advice me i thought to go ahead and the demand of this boy also increased to very high level. most of the time his requests end with tears on his eyes.
so last Friday I get promised from him that if i tell him to stop he must stop and he should keep this as a secret forever. further even he lick my nipples don't touch any time in future without my permission. after agreeing with that i went to bath and came in side home. i asked him to wait there at living room till i change. when i wearing a bra he was peeping to room. since he is disabled i could listen his movement and i covered the boobs with my towel before he enter the room. he asked me to show my naked boobs and not to shy because he has already watched my boobs when i bathing. I was change to angry mood and shout him. i told that i'll allow you because of your continues requests and considering the his situation. but you told me that you want feeding me like a mom. even you didn't have sex with your sister in law also.
he told me that yes he didn't do any sex before and see his tool that is very small so he is not possible to do sex with anyone. he opened the zipper and show his tool. actually his tool is very small. furthermore he wants tell me one secret that his sister in law all the time join with him only with a towel. even not doing sex she has fingering while the breastfeeding to this boy.
i said i am confuse now and i can't continue as i promised you. i need more time to re-think about this. again he started his pleading and i told him the i never thought to go such a far in this relationship. ok i allow and i will wear the towel only for upper body as you seen now. you can go ahead. i sat on the bed and he move to me on his wheel chair and started twist both nipples. i got electric shock and i told him i don't like this kind of activity please continue as boy sucking milk. he started sucking but after one minute he change it to licking. he was licking very fast and i couldn't sat on the bed also because of my out of control of the feeling. finally i lay on the bed because of it not easy to hold body when he licking fast. he got that chance and put his thong to my privet part and started licking again. since i was changing the dress when we started this there was no under garment. it also helped him to abuse me.
Honestly i never feel such a thin in my life before and my orgasm happened very quickly. we met six times from last friday to up to now.
i clearly explain what happened their is to tell you that i didn't has a intention to sex with him but give some enjoyment to his difficult life but now somehow i am on his hand.
my problems became more complicated now. if it is possible please share your view and advice on my matter as a help. it was worth your previous advises to move forward and i pay my thanks to you all.
actually i don't have wish to continue breast licking from him but just to give a chance to full fill his desire only one or two time. Now we continue it and since we are stay at alone he lick time to time but not full session. most of the time he don't suck but licking very fast. i see some post on the web that continues boob sucking can make breast milk. in this case is there any possibility to make milk even licking the nipples but minimum of sucking?
as i explained his tool is very small some time he put his tool out but still he didn't play anything  with that. yesterday i asked him that didn't you play with it and don't you have feeling on it. he told me his sister in law try to make hard it with blowjob but there was no any change. but he feel good when her touched it. i told you are a liar you told me lie that you had not sex with your sister in law. then he took my hand and put on his tool and said see this one is soft and small so we couldn't do anything. But i realised there is some harness but yes it is only one and half inch max. he ask for sat on his lap and try to in my vagina. we tried but 100% sure its not possible. but only can touch my virginal lips and there is some enjoyment for both. we continue this for two times but nothing happened to him like me. i think this is not harm for us and i am safe 100%. can i have a verification on my thought above is right or wrong from some experience person here?
He suggest me totally nude at the bath to see him in different view also request to undress many times at in the day time and now i feel my shyness getting away day by day. will i have any harmful result in my future regarding this matter?
he request to give him a chance to see me sex with hubby at once. normally my hubby is like to sex in living room and kitchen. i can give that chance but even have this much of things in my life in past days still i feel shy to do it. let me know there is any bad effect if i give that chance at once to him?
finally, this is the serious case that i have. i got two or three continues orgasm in a same time when he licking my privet part. i never ever had that feeling in such a strong manner in my life even in the full intercourse. the day before yesterday he licked  near one and half hour and finally i was lay like a death body. is that harmful to allow to do like this for me? will that make unnecessary weakness on my body in future?
commented Jun 26 by longhands1 (71,590 points)

I have not edited the Comments, to show how long it is. We do no have the time and patience to keep editing.

Editing the question took me 20 minutes. It was twice the size it now is. Please keep comments short and to the point. Also improve the English.  

LH

commented Jun 26 by gr8gaur (1,685 points)
I lost my patience reading that stuff.  What was it,  essay writing competition?  Do you think we got all the time in the world to read your novel type comment? Not to forget english is pretty average,  improve it ASAP.

Coming back to your problem,  I knew it the moment I first read your query that you'll  give in to his demands, so no surprises. As I said his disability is his USP but the real bitter truth is that you were itching to cheat on your husband and you did it all in the garb of helping a disabled guy. You had sex with him and you kept saying that you will only allow him to suck your tits.  The thing is that every individual is free to do what they like but one should not ask for opinions when they have already decided their course of action.  

My opinion is,  you willfully cheated on your husband who is working his ass off so that his wife can spread her legs to a disabled guy because she's  so kind and soft hearted to refuse such a weird demand. And let me tell you something,  you'll continue with this guy and soon you'll get bored because of his tiny little stuff and then you'll seek another guy. Yes,  this too will happen for sure.



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I think this boy has not received much affection from his mother.He considers his sister-in- law as a substitute of mother.He want to fulfill his fantasy by sucking her boobs.Same feelings is for you too.I think you should never hesitate to oblige him.This may bring him to normalcy.Ask him to keep the matter secret.You may trust him that she will not do sex with you.He respects you like his mother.
answered Jun 21 by Motilal (6,075 points)
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Seetha I am slightly curious as to why you are considering all this in the first place? Affair with a disabled boy is surprising. Moving on to your queries;

1. Will I be able to control him when he starts sucking my nipples?

Look the thing is that he is disabled and has already created quite a bit of drama in front of you. Just imagine what he might do in the future if you actually get involved with him. His disability has most probably affected his thinking and now he is mentally unstable. People don't go about respecting women as their mother and then suck their boobs. I'm quite sure he was able to bed his sister in law with some twisted story or blackmail.

2. Will it go further?

You got wet when he squeezed your boobs over your blouse and was unable to feel your nipples. What do you think when he has his lips over your naked boobs?

3. Will there be unwanted problems in my future?

Your husband can find out. Or he can blackmail you. Worst case scenario can be an unwanted pregnancy, provided he has a functioning tool. I'm pretty sure his mother would be thrilled with it, since he got to score a woman.

4. If I allow him only to suck my boobs, will there be changes in my boobs?

There will not be any change in your boobs or your body no matter what he does with you.
answered Jun 22 by Tuff (315 points)
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Hi, I think you shall let him touch and suck your boobs. There is nothing wrong in helping the poor chap.

But one thing for sure, you will not be able to restrict him for only once. As you are alone with him for considerable time, he will definitely ask for more frequently.

As you said, you were wet too, then I think you shall go ahead and enjoy with him. And NO, there won't be noticeable changes in your boobs just by sucking. Of course don't let him take love bites on your boobs.

Just make sure that your husband doesn't come to know about this.

All the best...
Enjoy to fullest...
answered Jun 22 by Rati.Anil (265 points)
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1)Do you want to have sex with him?

Seetha,
You have mentioned that you have become wet when he touched your breasts. So are you intrested in having sex with him?. You might have a slight difference in the boob size after he is sucked ,but this is minimal. You will obviously have a hickey around your nipple as he has sucked. No other difference will you possibly notice in your breasts.
After Sucking boobs situation will go further ...as you have mentioned you become wet when he sucks your breasts. You will lose control over him and you people will end up having sex for sure. And there will be unwanted problems incase you end up having sex with him without protection. If you both end up having sex, please do use a condom to prevent problems like pregnancy ,etc
It is your call ...if u can control him then you people wont end up having sex, or else you people will end up having sex..its about you if u have the control over him. But surely he will force you to have sex after sucking your boobs for sure.
answered Jun 22 by Darius (230 points)
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So this teenager is using his disability to get into the pants of women, that's  his USP. But the point here is are you doing this because you feel pity on him or you deliberately want to cheat on your husband? Does your husband deserve an unfaithful wife?

He (your husband) works to earn money to pay the rent of the house where you two live so that you can cheat on him? Do you feel the same way for all the handicapped and disabled person? His disability  is unfortunate  but he is using it to his leverage in an immoral way and you fail to see it.

What if your husband does the same,  all in the name of helping a disabled girl? As for your question ask yourself,  will you be able to stop? What if it turns into a full fledged affair?  What if your husband sees a bite mark kind of thing on your boobs?
answered Jun 22 by gr8gaur (1,685 points)
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Dear Seetha,

Whether you touch the coal or you hold the coal, end result would remain the same, that your hand is going to get dirty.

3 things that could happen

1) You might enjoy too over a period of time and might want to take it to next level. I mean you might end up taking his manhood in your honey pot
2) Or he might get too excited and might want to take it to next level either by force or with your consent. Means either his manhood will exploit your honey pot either forcefully or with your consent
3) Or he might continue sucking the lovely milk can of yours and you keep feeding him, without moving to next level, which i seriously doubt

In all the 3 situation, you might end up creating thunderstorm in your married life if caught. So you need to evaluate if it is worth taking risk.

And if it is worth taking risk, then enjoy the bliss getting sucked on your upper and lover lips, with invading rod in your honey pot.

Do let us know.

Have a wonderful sex life.

Regards
answered Jun 22 by M_ann16 (350 points)
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once it is started, then hard to stop. he will suck one nipple, you will offer another nipple yourself, then coming down, sucking and fucking is sure.
answered Jun 22 by coupleindia10 (180 points)
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I fully agree with gr8gaur.

I am not blaming all the ladies but your husband works whole day to give you all the amenities. Sometimes he is not able to satisfy u in the bed due to work pressure But This not mean that we should cheat.

And i want to ask question to the Moderator.
Can we ask or answer in hindi language?
I think there are so many members who dont ask or answer cos they are not good at english.
answered Jun 22 by Crimson tide (120 points)
commented Jun 22 by longhands1 (71,590 points)

Crimson,

You can ask and answer only in English on this Site. There must be other Sites where other Languages are permitted.

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Hi seetha..this question reminds me of my childhood when i was a teenager and used to peep from my window to see naked aunties.the question is why he see u naked?because we boys as a teenager love to see women body specially big boobs and while doing that most of the we masterbet.so he is interested in ur lovely body.he would like to lick it ,sqeeze it, suck it.and while doing this he will not have any motherly feeling its purely womenly feelings.
Ur 2nd question...pressing or sucking ur boobs will not have any negative effect.
Ur 3rd question..normally this sucking session will end up as fucking session in most of the cases.well thats not a bad thing.
Ur 4th and most important observation...u were fully wer when he even touch u from ur  blouse only.i mean common everybody on this planet want to enjoy sex other than their spouse,girlfriend,boyfriend.some found it in their sister, some in their son, some fall for incest.why we enjoy so much these things which are forbidden.because we want to know why it is forbidden.ur body have a regular touch of ur husband but first time u were touch by a new person.this excites ur body and u become fully wet.u are getting a chance to enjoy ur body other than ur hubby.take this chance.manipulate that kid.take him under ur control.let him sqeeze ur boobs,let him press ur ass,let him chew ur nipple,let him finger ur pussy,let him kiss ur lower lips between ur legs,let him lick ur ass hole,let him fuck u..take a chance of leap.enjoy ur body,enjoy ur freedom,enjoy ur life.this is life.if i were in ur place i would definitely take action and proceed my further actions.
answered Jun 22 by IGNACIO (310 points)
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It would be cheating on your husband who is working his ass off to make your life well. Why do you want to cheat on him? Does he not have sex with you enough? Don’t you have a good relationship with him? You made a mistake by allowing this boy to touch your boobs and he would not allow you to go away from him now as he touched your boobs so he will surely want to have fun with those boobs which are for your husband and for you future kids.

It seems that the boy is smart enough to make you ready to have sex with him. He will surely get into your pants once you allow him to suck your boobs and you cannot control yourself in the heat of the moment so keep in mind that you are preparing yourself to cheat on your husband. You can help him in many other ways but because of his disability he does not have a right to ask indecent demand. Help him but make sure that it does not affect your married life with your husband as it is responsibility to stay loyal to your husband. 

answered Jun 23 by alpesh kapdi (21,910 points)
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Hi Seetha.

I really appreciate your sympathy and helping nature against that disabled boy. You are really helping him alot. As no one can marry that boy, women like you are able to fulfull his sexual desires.

I also observed that you are getting sexually attracted towards him as extra marital effairs always excites.

It looks like you would also want to satisfy him sexually. If you do not have any problem and there are no security issues as both of  you are alone in the home, you can also satisfy him sexually.

Let him enjoy sucking your boobs and licking your Pussy. Also allow him to fuck you. I think both of you can enjoy it. Dont let anyone know about it. Have sex with him as longas you stay in their home.
answered Jun 26 by naveen143 (215 points)

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