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My cousin saw me masturbating and she just kept watching. Should I approach her for sex?

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asked Jun 30 in Questions by 86shiva (120 points)
edited Jun 30 by longhands1

Hi,

I am a guy in my late Twenties. My cousin is two years older than me and married. Once, when I was masturbating inside my room without locking it, she entered to the shock of both of us. She just stood there for a while seeing my dick and then left without saying anything.

It has been a month since this happened. Its hard to make eye contact for both of us. She keeps seeing me when I don't see her. I am also attracted to her. She too is attracted me even before this incident happened. She always used to talk about my muscles and peek into my room whenever I exercise.

Is it wise to approach her for sex or shall I take the initiative by kissing her.

Just guide me.

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Do you live in your cousin's house or she lives in yours? Where's her hubby and what if you get caught and her hubby your BIL comes to know about all this ?

Now coming back to your problem.
You said it's a month since she saw you jerking off, don't you think a month is a long time to act on what you desire ? Why not honestly have a talk with her rather than just kiss her like in the movies and hope for her spreading legs for you ?

The amount of courage you need to have honest talk about your feelings with her is so much less than courage you need to just go and kiss her in a surprising manner.
answered Jun 30 by gr8gaur (1,680 points)
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If she look at you in seductive way then you should try your luck. You didn't posted about her married sexual life. It plays crucial role.
answered Jun 30 by rahulsngh (690 points)
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Hey friend,

Your question seems obvious. But before proceeding for any sexual activity, you must once again give her a chance to see your cock and watch her reaction.

If she again watches you jacking then make eye contact or proceed to show her more, and if she ignores then leave that thought about fucking her.
answered Jun 30 by indianhulk (135 points)
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Just talk to her in an relaxed and humorous way. Talk to her about how you are finding it awkward after that incident and then just be friendly. As she will become more comfortable, you can later take the discussion towards sex.
answered Jun 30 by Tuff (315 points)
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There is nothing in your description which suggests that she is attracted towards you and wants to sleep with you. She was shocked when she saw you masturbating so she did not able to decide what she could do so she stood there for a while but as soon as she became cognizant she left the room so do not interpret all this that she wants your penis inside her vagina.

She is married so stay away from her otherwise her marriage life will be in trouble because of you which you do not have a right. You can masturbate fantasizing about her as that does not harm anyone but do not try to make such thing in reality. 

answered Jul 1 by alpesh kapdi (21,860 points)
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its very complicated because your sister looking you masturbating that doesn't mean she is interested in you she may have been in room by suddenly and she saw in you in that stat and must shocked to see you like that
If you are interested in trying your luck you can because nobody know whats in a girl mind she may have felt something in you so she stayed there for a while  If you succeed you will get a vagina and you will get to enjoy her If you fail you will lose your sister thats sure
think carefully  do not take unwanted steps
answered Jul 1 by pavan350 (740 points)
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Can create family rift!
  
This is same cousin you may face in next 40-50 years of your life
and feel awkward each time you meet. Very unconventional choice,
it's like you lack other viable options. Easy routes to intimacy are never
recommended.

Think
answered Jul 4 by guruofalldivas (225 points)

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