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My wife gets orgasm only with oral sex. How to make her orgasm with penetration?

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asked Aug 24 in Questions by hollow (165 points)
edited Aug 29 by longhands1

I would prefer that my wife achieves orgasm by penis also. So far she never had it by penis. She is interested in getting inserted by penis but it never gave orgasm. The only way she got orgasm is with me doing oral. Not even fingering.

I am seeking help to understand how I can get her to orgasm just by insertion of penis and without resorting to Oral.

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Hi,

You haven't mentioned your age and your wife's age.
As per your narration you are doing oral sex well for your wife, but about fingering and penetration may be you are not that good.

That's why your wife never gets any orgasms. You may be ejaculating early or not doing sex moves properly.

So learn new moves and tell us what happens next.
answered Aug 24 by Harsh.03 (435 points)
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Dear hollow,

You have mentioned that your wife is getting orgasm by oral but not in penetrative sex. Look, not every woman gets orgasm during sex.

Stimulation to clitoris and G-spot leads to orgasm. So try to reach her G-spot. You need to try some position which leads to deep penetration and also stimulates the clitoris. Try doggy and woman on top position. You can get some more ideas about position from this Site. Try to find articles about sex position which help you to reach her G-spot.

And tell your wife to stimulate her clitoris by her own finger during penetration, by this you can make your wife orgasm.
answered Aug 24 by dashing prava (400 points)
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Hollow
I agree with dashing prava and I voted her answer. Vaginal orgasms don't happen without some kind of clit stimulation. They can be enhanced with the G-spot, which provides a different sensation, and clitoral orgasm during penetration can give you the feeling of vaginal orgasm.
answered Aug 24 by solliadi (1,320 points)
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Hollow, Try to make her hot like a firecracker ! All depends on the foreplay! Play with her body. Massage her erogenous zones !
         You have been having sex with her regularly So you would have been quite familiar  with her erogenous  zones. If not find them out and stimulate her. Kiss and lick  these parts tenderly as well as roughly and if okay with her you can even  bite them too. Just let her beg for your cock! But never insert immediately . Prolong the penetration as long as possible. And when she will be all wet and hot then insert . You will get the results. Best of luck Do not forget to share if you get positive results.
answered Aug 24 by prashant69 (6,925 points)
commented Aug 25 by Motilal (6,045 points)
I think your wife needs more foreplay.Stimulate her till she becomes wet.Titillation of clitoris and G-Spot,sucking and licking breasts and vagina may be useful.Praise her time to time.Prepare her fully for sex before penetration.
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You can make love in doggie style and while penetrating, keep on rubbing her erect clitoris with your finger, simultaneously play with her boobs.

See that before penetration, you have lots of kissing and foreplay including oral, (oral not up to orgasm).

Please let us know the result.
answered Aug 25 by kunjumon57 (420 points)
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One thing I would say you should understand that there are many women who only get orgasm through oral sex so she is not alone who does not get the orgasm with penetration. The good thing is that she gets orgasm by oral sex otherwise there are plenty of women who never achieve orgasm either by penis or oral sex.

Women’s body work differently than men. Therefore, one has to understand his partner’s requirement and biological need. How it works to balance everything. If she is not getting orgasm then you should not worry about it and that does not mean that she does not like your penis inside her vagina as she must feel the pleasure and she will love to take your penis insider her vagina all the time but orgasm works differently for her which you should keep in mind.

What is the problem in giving her oral sex? Do you not like it? Does it make you feel less as a man? If that is the case then you are analyzing things too much. Your wife is fine and you should not do anything to force her to get orgasm through your penis as that might not be possible for her because of different requirement. You both should focus on how to make each other feel good in sex.
answered Aug 29 by alpesh kapdi (21,880 points)
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Hi,

It should not be the concern for you if she is achieving an orgasm either by oral sex or penetration.

BTW, Congratulations. She is being honest and accepting that she enjoys oral more and gets orgasm through that, otherwise women have such a high sexual requirements that not every man can satisfy her on the bed.
And you do it..so Congrats.

Not many women achieve orgasm through penetration due to several reasons - like man ejaculates early, penis not hitting the spot where she feels stimulation in her body or may be penetration doesn't excite her more instead other things like oral sex, foreplay excites her more.

So leave it on her and enjoy her orgasms and get one or some.. :)
answered Aug 29 by sharmanatasha87 (605 points)
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Try Kamasutra.  There are many poses that you can try. They help anyone to achieve orgasm. Just be careful as there are poses which are difficult, but they can surely help.
answered Aug 30 by myselfarun (680 points)

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