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Is it ok to lick my wife's vagina the first time we have sex?

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asked Sep 11 in Questions by iwannaknow (120 points)

I shall soon be married. My wife is a virgin though I am experienced. We talk on the phone but she is hesitant in sexual stuff. I was wondering if it will be okay to suck my wife's vagina the first time we have sex? Do I need to make any preparations?

How to get her to be more receptive in sexual matters?




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I dislike the idea of licking wife's vagina during first time sex. Kiss and embrace her, fondle and suck her breasts...arouse her fully, make her wet before doing sex.

No preparation is necessary. During foreplay your  penis will become stiff for penetration in her vagina. Keep your nerves calm otherwise you will discharge soon.

If this happens, there is nothing to worry.
answered Sep 12 by Motilal (5,530 points)
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iwannaknow

Why this kolaveri?
First learn to fuck her properly in first night. Whole life is there to explore many many things.. You do pHD on licking later after doing PG in foreplays..
answered Sep 12 by solliadi (990 points)
commented Sep 12 by solliadi (990 points)
Congratulations.

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Time will make her ready to do anything with you so be patience with her and give her time to be comfortable with you and with the sex. You should not forget that she is not experienced one so she needs some time to understand her body to know how it works. I would say there is no need to go down on her the first time you guys have sex as that may scare her out so go slowly with her and keep it simple like do only one position and keep assuring her that you will take care of her body so she gets relaxed.

You have a lot of time with her to do other stuff like new sex positions, lick vagina, ask her to give you blowjob but first thing you should focus on how to make her comfortable with you so she gets opened up with you to experience new things in the sex. It is your right to have sex with her after the marriage but at the same time you should take care that she is happy and comfortable with you.

When I had sex with my wife first time she was even hesitate to remove her cloths to have sex and so many other hesitations which make her impossible to have sex with me but now she can do anything for me and she makes sure that I get the blow job daily before sleeping and after waking up which my patience and affection made possible.
answered Sep 13 by alpesh kapdi (21,135 points)
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you said you are experienced so you better know if its ok or not i personally like it if she clean down there.
answered Sep 13 by myselfarun (415 points)

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