I am 30 years old, married for 1.5 years. My wife is 29 year old. I love my wife and she also loves me back. Only problem is, our sex life.
She does not like to kiss, especially on lips, she feels its disgusting. Some time we even tried to make toungue contact but she retracted very quickly. She feels its tasteless. She frequently compilents my advancement face/mouth towards her mouth.
She dont like to have intercource with the lights on, I protested many time. Now some time she oblidge/ some time we had sex in day time also.
She does not like to be completely naked. She wants to keep at least one cloth like blouse on her. Once or twice, I requested her and she became completely naked, but still she was uncomfortable. However, two-three times we bathed together, after requesting her many times.
During the early part of our marriage, she was too ticklish, even touching of her boobs was difficult. Now she cooperates.
There is another problem. Recently, she is having severe breast pain for 1.5 months. I dont blame for her. I pity her.
I voluntarily did oral job on her many times, She seems to enjoy, but never expressed it, and never asked for it. She always says enough after some point. I never asked for any oral, as I dont think she will ever do it (how can I ask one who refuses to kiss on the mouth to give blow job)?
She performed handjob sometimes with my request. But I can feel she is doing all because of my force/demand. I requested sometimes to have intercouse with better innerwears/saree but my requests denied continously.
Now we are trying to have a baby. I am hoping atleast now, I will get the pleasure of intercouse. But some time I hate my self for this joyless sex. From her perspective she never thinks foreplay is necessary for sex, which I hate to the core.
Who knows, May be I am over exepecting.
Except for these sexual tensions, we love each other very much.
Help me please.....
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