I am Arun from Chennai. Recently I got my friend's (girl) contact after 5 years. Five years ago, I was studying in college and took a room separately along with my two friends. This Girl and her mother occupied a nearby house and was pursuing her HSC in a reputed school. At that age itself, she was committed to a guy who was well known to her family and was 5 years elder than her. Her family and ours had a very good relationship. We completed our studies and vacated our room. I had no contact with them.
Now, after 5 years I got her contact and was happy to speak with her, casually thoughh, since her parents are awesome, very good character folks. Then she started messaging me frequently, asking me to come to her place to have a get to gether. I went there causally, since she was a good friend .
We went for a long drive in ECR, talking about old memories. Slowly, she started talking about her workplace and people in her office having extra marital relationships. We both discussed that and thought it was a wrong thing.
Then she started talking abt intercourse. She kept touching me while speaking. I got confused, whether this is usual or am thinking wrong? She told to drive to the beach. I refused, since it was already 10 PM. I dropped her at the hostel.
She then texted me saying next time we will book a room in the beach resort. First, I thought she was kidding, but then she kept asking me which date can we book the room?
Then I asked her, " Do you know What BOOK A ROOM means" ? She said " Yes I know". I told her, it was wrong and I didn't know she thought like this. She said, who told you it is wrong? I asked her if she was in love with me? She said I like you. I got angry and scolded her and advised her that it was wrong.
Then she apologized and startted crying and said, please dont think ill of me and dont stop talking to me as i am alone in this city. I told herr, it was ok. We all make mistakes.
Please Advise: Now, I am also interested. I did not show it to her because I was thinking about her future and that I should not mislead her).
I am single and have not yet touched a girl. I got few invites in the past, but I regretted those, due to fear. In my home they have started searching for a bride for me.
What do I do? Please advise. I am so confused. Help.