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My wife complains of pain in her vagina when I have doggy style Sex. Help.

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asked Nov 24, 2017 in Questions by Karthikp1990 (145 points)
edited Nov 29, 2017 by longhands1

Hi Everyone,

My wife complaints that she gets hurt during doggy style sex.


While doing doggy style, I just push half of my penis inside her. She tells me don't push more as it hurts. I try to pump her slowly and after 2 minutes, she says my back is paining and asks me to stop.

Some times, I tell her to do women on top but she says can't stretch legs as it hurts and also hurts inside her vagina.

I do lot of foreplay till she gets wet.

Pls suggest if there is any way to overcome the problem.

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Doggy style can sometimes be painful. If her back is paining, try keeping 1 or 2 pillows under her so that she can be in a more relaxed position.
 You can try standing doggy style too. Whichever position you end up doing, remember to always use some kind of lubricant or making her very wet before intercourse, as smooth entry always reduces the risk of anu tearing. But if her vagina (not back) still hurts after using lubricants:

1) your penis may be too wide or long for her

 or

2) she may have some kind of vaginal infection.

Hope it helps.
answered Nov 25, 2017 by Subaruyagami (240 points)
commented Nov 25, 2017 by Karthikp1990 (145 points)
If try to make her too wet. She says I am tired and don't have that much interest. She always says do men on top and don't push penies to much inside.

Not sure if penies is to wide or long.

How to know penies is wide and long for her

Is there any alternative way to deal with this
commented Nov 28, 2017 by Subaruyagami (240 points)
If your penis is around 6 inches and girth is around 4.5, then you penis size is average.

The problem is that she may be uncomfortable with doggy style. You can use lubricants instead of making her wet.
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I think you watch a lot porn and try to do the same.
the thing is that they practice it many times and they know how to be in proper position.

in your case it seems that you are doing as you know, but you don't know proper positions. like your wife says she feel back pain. do it properly. make her comfortable.
answered Nov 25, 2017 by Harsh.03 (535 points)
commented Nov 25, 2017 by Karthikp1990 (145 points)
Could you pls guide me any online site or..... From where I can get knowledge
commented Nov 26, 2017 by Harsh.03 (535 points)
There are nos of pornsite which you can refer.

now I read your replies to all answer you get.
about penis size and width, as womens vagina is stretchable so penis width is not matter.
about dryness, you can use some artificial lubes.

another thing you said that your wife complaint about women on top as she feels pains in the leg.
is she is also working. if yes then she may be get tired in her day to day activity. so she feels pains.

another reason for her pain is may be you do it with more speed. so try to slow down.

penis of size 5-6 inches are average size. if you have average size then no worry.

and last about back pain.
it may be coz of inproper position. but by practice you can do this better.
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You have already tried two postures.Doggy and women on top,but there is no remission of pain.I think dryness of vagina may be one of the reason of feeling pain.Proper lubrication of respective copulative organ is lacking,try to overcome this.Attempt man on top posture,keeping pillow under her buttocks.Tell me the result.
answered Nov 25, 2017 by Motilal (6,420 points)
commented Nov 25, 2017 by Karthikp1990 (145 points)
I have tried already the pillow under buttocks. She is not comfortable with that.

I made her too wet but wetness goes away in less than 5min. Is this common or ?
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It seems that she does not know how to pose herself for that position and it happens with the people who are new but with time and practice such issues can be fixed easily. She needs to make sure that she gives the access of her vagina where you can easily penetrate her from the behind. She has to keep her legs little apart and needs to poke her ass out.

You can show her some pictures and videos of doggy style so she can learn how to do it correctly. She gets pain because of the friction she feels during that position. If she puts enough effort to do it and you support her fully then I think you both can have doggy style sex successfully but it takes time as she has to learn a few tricks for that. Remember patience is the key and she can definitely have different positions so do not feel bad as she is inexperienced and that makes it hard for her but  that does not mean that she does not have capacity.
answered Nov 26, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (22,620 points)

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