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My Wife and I talk about Threesomes and Cuckolding. How to make it a reality?

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asked Nov 30 in Questions by samnish (120 points)
edited Dec 8 by longhands1

Hi,

I am Raj and my wife's name is Nisha. We are married now for 5 years. It was an arranged marriage.

Since two years, to spice up our married life, I began searching pictures of sex position on the internet and suddenly was introduced to the world of cuckold and threesome.

There I saw pictures of Indian couples involved in these life styles. I found them very interesting. I started exploring more about these lifestyle by watching indian couple cuckold and threesome videos with white and black men. I loved watching everything.

Around one and half year ago, I bought my wife a 12 inches black and 10 inches white dildo. She loved them and we used them sometimes. Then I introduced her to  some real white and black cock pictures. She showed no objection at all. Now, we talk about threesome, cuckolds with each other very comfortably.

She seems very comfortable talking about this stuff when she is at work and via whatsapp messages. I sent her pictures of guys with big penises and tell her how I want them to have sex with her infront of me. She always respond very positively. and she always ask me to keep and nurture this fantasy.

But she says that we will do this in middle age, as we are now only 30 and 27. She even agrees to be fucked by two men at the same time. During the chat, she is always very open and loves to talk about the fantasy.

You can say that there is nothing which we don't talk about in this fantasy. When I told her that I want her to enjoy different cocks infront of me, she says she certainly wants to enjoy bigger and different cocks but only with me.

We both think that marriage does not mean that she cannot have sex outside marriage. I would love to see bigger cocks in her pussy. I am not into girls now and she is fully aware of it.

My only fantasy is that we have sex with different men but being together. And she knows fully what is in my mind and she completely agrees to it also.

So, my question here is that as a reader, do you think this kind of lifestyle will work for us. What do you think of my wife? To you, does she seem that she really wants it or she just wants to do it because I am telling her.

By the way, we both are indian and live in the US. Please tell me your thoughts about our situation.

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Raj,

I think you are half way there to making your Fantasy a Reality. The most difficult part is getting one’s wife to talk about the idea of a Threesome.

Since you are both comfortable talking about it and watching porn together based on this Topic, arranging a meeting should not be difficult.

Do not mistake cuckolding with threesomes and swapping. Cuckolding implies that your wife takes charge and you do her bidding. At least in the initial stage, you would have to take the lead.

I am in the US myself and find ready acceptance to such a lifestyle from many other Indian Couples. There are Couple meets in Florida etc, which could help in meeting other Couples.     

You have asked us, what we think of your wife? Who are we to judge? But it is a Lifestyle that is going viral even in India. You can read our Articles in the Cuckold Corner and Diary of a Hot Wife. Type Cuckold Corner or Hot Wife in the start searching Box (on top right) and you will enjoy them. Do show it to your wife too.    

There is no such thing as you should try it only in Middle age. Many Couples are in your age group, though it is easier to spend more time partying etc. in this Lifestyle when you are well settled in Life and children are in College.  

One thing that most women are wary of is losing their husband to another woman. You have to convince your wife about this. Even if you tell her that you want her to enjoy and you do not need another woman, she will tell you, that you may blame her later in Life.  

Everything is not hunky dory though. Like any human relationship, you can never tell about the future. Your wife may get so enamored by another “huge” cock, that she may want to marry him. Don’t laugh. Read some of the problems faced by some of our Male Readers, who have ventured into this Lifestyle.

But, on the other hand it could help the bond between you two to become even stronger. When a man wants a woman to “ cum” (figuratively speaking) first in his life, and he sets out to do anything to please his woman, the Woman begins to love him even more.
answered Nov 30 by longhands1 (73,095 points)
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Her participation in talking about threesome and letting you know her wish shows that she is ready but she told you when she would like to do it. She feels that you can bring such acts into bedroom when you both attain the certain ages and there is no spice in your sex life.

Threesome and cuckold have their pros and cons and only partners are able to get the positive results of these acts who are mature and understand each other well on all the level so if you think that you and your wife understand each other then you both can go for it but you both need to sit down to decide about the boundaries so later on no one feels betrayed if one partner does something out of the way. Overall, she is ready.
answered Dec 1 by alpesh kapdi (22,130 points)
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You and your wife are very positive about this and these things can impact your regular life.

About cuckolding well there are couples which are into it and I know few of them personally. So if you can handle humiliation and sight of your wife being fucked then you are welcome. And she will agree to do it just keep showing her those pics and videos she will be agree do it in coming months.
answered Dec 2 by myselfarun (760 points)
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Samnish
Consider this word of your wife - "Do this in your middle age and you are only 30 and 27".  This tells lot many things.
answered Dec 6 by solliadi (1,410 points)
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There is no harm if you are trying to have fun. Don't be serious just have fun.
Since your wife is ready so go ahead without any thought.
answered Dec 7 by SKS (200 points)
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Select her boyfriend or man of her choice. Invite him at your home for lunch/ dinner. Tell your wife to wear some sexy dresses when he come to your home. Pronounce his name while doing sex. Tell her to seduce him. She will agree.
answered 5 days ago by Sheel (200 points)

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