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My Mom who is a widow watches porn secretly. Do you thinks she wants to have Sex?

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asked Dec 5 in Questions by Idontknow (170 points)
edited Dec 8 by longhands1

Hello all,

I had filled some porn videos in my Mom's mobile few days ago without her knowledge.

When I checked her phone, I saw that she has played the porn clips and has already watched half of them. She has not deleted any of them.

My Mom is 48 years and is a widow. She has not had sex since past 8-10 years. Does this mean she want to have sex now? Should I talk with my mom whether she needs someone for sex of her age? Like some affair with some uncle or something like that?

I dont mind her having sex with someone as I understand she is also a human and has Sex needs.

Pleasse give me your views and advice.

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8 Answers

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If your mom has  not been involved sexual act for nearly 8 to 10 year it's a easy path for you or any one to  achieve her vagina because she  starved of penis which we touch her glory hole
Your mom needs someone to fulfil her sexual desire if your mom allows you you can proceed  it if she want any other men you have no chance then
You have golden chance in this case you are perfect postion to grab her body don't let it go
My confidence says you will come up here with next question about your experience with your mom
answered Dec 6 by pavan350 (875 points)
commented Dec 6 by Idontknow (170 points)
Thanks .. its my fantasy to see my mom getting fucked from some other man..
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All women have their sexual needs, desire and urges - explicit or implicit. Your mom, although a widow, is no exception. Most women in their 40s are sexually active and past menopause many love the freedom from fear of getting pregnant and often go for extra-marital sex. But in your case let her enjoy the porns if she enjoys it. This might not lead to any sexual activity with any male counterpart as there is alternative options, like self stimulation/masturbation. You should not interfere with her acts unless asked for from you.
answered Dec 6 by zena69 (1,480 points)
commented Dec 6 by Idontknow (170 points)
Thanks for ur valuable suggestion :-)
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I really think the last line was a nice line. As your mother 48 years old, she knows what is good for her.

But what was your intention when you filled those porn videos on her phone? Did you want incest sex? If you don't want incest and want her to enjoy her life, then go and tell her the truth. Ask her if is she has any desires. After loss of her husband she would feel lonely. May be those videos are entertainment for her.

If you have no problem if she has any kind of relationship with other men then tell her that. And there is no rule written that women of age 48 should have affair (if they wanted) with same age guy or the guy who is older than the women.

Keep us updated here.
answered Dec 6 by Harsh.03 (510 points)
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Idontknow
What are you doing after your studies? Try to progress in your career. Why now you are concerned about your mother after 8 to 10 years?
answered Dec 6 by solliadi (1,410 points)
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Your brain is too much fertile.Don't spy on your mother.How you know that she is watching porn secretly? Let her do this.She is adult and experienced.You have violated her privacy,by searching mobile.Why are you worried about mother's sex....mind your own business.
answered Dec 6 by Motilal (6,215 points)
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You are right that she is a human and needs sex but that is not your position to support in her in this regard as she is adult enough to understand what she needs to do to calm down her sexual needs. You should not play with her mobile as it is not your right to give her porn and then check whether she has watched it or not.

Just play the role of responsible son and do not interfere in her personal life as that is not your business. If she wants sex then she will herself find a man who she likes to have sex. There is no need to make her feel weird by talking with her about sex and all this things as she is your mom and she will not be comfortable talking such things with you.
answered Dec 6 by alpesh kapdi (22,130 points)
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Its obvious she needs it. Every one needs sex but she is satisfying herself with those clips. You don't have to talk to her about it.

She is more mature than you, if she feel like it she will have an affair. May be she is avoiding because of you.

So just give her some hint that you wont mind having another guy in her life.
answered Dec 7 by myselfarun (760 points)
commented Dec 7 by Idontknow (170 points)
Thanku.. simple best and sensible suggestion by u..
commented Dec 7 by myselfarun (760 points)
Thanks and you are welcome
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You should also watch porn clips and let your mom know that you watch porn clips frequently.

Make your cellphone accessible to your mom to know that you watch sex clips frequently. Let her ask you why you watch porn clips. Then answer her that you are watching clips because you don't get it in real.

This is the situation of your mom that is why she watches clips. If she suggests any real act then you can arrange same for her.
answered 5 days ago by Sheel (175 points)

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