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MMS Clips, how do you react?

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If you see my profile, I gave a quote there. It says "Good teaching is more a giving of right Questions than a giving of right Answers." - Josef Albers

These days a lot of question we can see are pretty elementary. When we are talking much matured stage the questions should be good. Questions should be on sexual health and relationship, instead we can get to see a lot of fantasy or sick or elementary question.  These days I have to agree the members replying are much more serious, to the point, in simple word, the replies are real matured. But qquestions are not coming in same level. 

I am putting a question, this is hypothetical.  

I guess I asked about MMS before, this one is also on MMS. We love watching MMS clips, get a hardon and forget the actors. We hardly remember the people on it, but some are consenting some are hidden. Now I have two questions-

1. If you ar watching MMS clips buying from market and in one you see this is you yourself, shot was when you brought your girlfriend, callgirl. wife or even office girl to a hotel, some one shot the whole fuck scene in hidden camera, what will be your reaction?

2. If you are watching and suddenly see some close family member was in the clip with consenting attitude, what would be your reaction? Family member can be wife, sister or girlfriend with someone you dont know.

Hypothetical question, so dont take seriouly, just share your feeling.

asked Mar 18, 2012 in Questions by oye (28,991 points)

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Good question u came up with oye bro..:)
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1. This is the risk of going to hotels or resorts.. Risk of our video being recorded.. If at all that happens, first i ll feel i am famous..:D Kiddin! What can i actually do?? I cant actually trace the source.. But i can always sue the hotel and the authorities about this mms clip matter and make a big issue.. Ll make sure it doesnt happen in that hotel again.. Else, file a case against the hotel if i was with the legal partner.. Any other girl like girlfrnd or call girl means we cannot file a case.. So ll just have to take some friends and make an issue..
And this is the reason, i take the females to my family guest house.. Hardly its used by others.. So i flick the keys and go there with a girl..;)
2. If its a relative of mine, who ever it is, first ll show them the video.. Ll ask for some explaination.. Depending on what they say, ll react.. Even for this, ll try tracing the source and try sueing the people responsible for this..
I don't know if my answers are fair enough but this is how i would react..:)
answered Mar 18, 2012 by hades (2,884 points)
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Watching MMS clips is not a bad thing,one only get the idea of how people perform sexual acts.There are many things which people have got by  watching such clips.Different styles of sex performance,their approaches has resulted in creation of different type of questions for this site.
answered Mar 18, 2012 by Khurram kamal (650 points)
most funny and shocking answer. MMS clips has ruined many families. and you are learning sex with them. Buy a colour TV, a DVD playerand high definition print of porno. You will learn better and clear...
I think may be someone who was near to you was ruined.Thats why you have gone to ruined part.
yeah! One of our relative was drugged, shot.
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Honestly, this is an useless question I asked.

I asked because I was expecting some members might come out with their real life issue. Seems none are facing that.  What they have done, what they think should be done.

Anyway, replying my own question is awkward, still trying.  There are dozans of MMS upload sites, and people can upload clips for others view, mainly to put someone in trouble. The reality says, everyday there are 1000s of upload happens, and all these upload sites are free, so they share among themselves.

If you get to see your own clip or any family member's clip, the best option is ignore. I mean it, just ignore. People who watch MMS, has very short memory and they give a crap about any faces, rather they look for the action, if that is hidden, that is black mail or even how the position was.  Even if someone comes back to you saying he saw you, pretend that he/she is a dirty minded person who watches all these porno flicks.  

Well there is only one exception, if any guy finds his wife on any clip where she was actively participating, its a wake up call, better to look at yourself if you are doing something wrong, what you should be doing.

For the rest, watch, delete and forget it.
answered Mar 18, 2012 by oye (28,991 points)
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Oye,

As you agree, this is a hypothetical question and deserves a hypothetical answer. As you have answered it yourself, am wondering if I should do so. Frankly there is nothing that you can do, if you find yourself in one of those clips surreptiously made by some unsociable elements. Try lodging a case and you will be butt of ridicule, of the police. Not only will nothing be done, but your infamy will spread even further. I know of atleast one hotel, that allows you to watch the performance in their rooms. You have to be connected with the hotel staff and have to pay for the live performance.

You must be already aware of the dangers of cam to cam sex. Not only is the person/couple viewing your solo (masturbatory)/partner performance, likely to record you and your partner but also there are a large number of hackers out there who can capture your sex escapade and then sell it to sites.   

Regarding your second question, if its a close family member, all you can do is ask that person to explain, if it has happened during your current relationship. It would be better to let it pass if it had happened in the distant past.
answered Mar 18, 2012 by longhands1 (9,802 points)
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bad network ruined my one answer. Now trying again.

Oye, you always have your views broad. And everytime i got to know a new point towards a specified problem. I agree that if we got to see such clips. Watch it and forget it. Thats a gentleman can do, not to give a fire on issue. It may be worse for the person who is a victim of such acts.

Your second query has many flash backs of suicides, humiliations, blackmails. What a victimised family have to do after such incident. Well, i cant imagine myself in such situation. answering is not possible.

I am a close victim of such incident. we somehow found those bastards and made them all half dead.  now they are the last species of their generation. But all these thing were not able to stop the bluetooth transfer. Somehow we visited every house of our town and deleted as much as we could.

This case is one case among the most of the cases which does not has any police record. And why police record. Do police realise their moral duty?

My little request to all people who able to read this.
While staying in hotel/resorts, watch out standard of that place. Your dick/cunt do not have eyes but they have many.
New couple please make sure the room enough dark/switch off the light. Before you go intimate with your loved one.

If video recording is a momento for your boyfriend or he says it as a proof of your love for him. Better move on  or at least check the webcame of laptop which is placed next to your bed.

Thats all. Thank you.
answered Mar 18, 2012 by akk0907 (3,145 points)
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Mean time its very big matter but one think I want to tell you now the time everybody aware about mms you must take care of your self why the people are so careless and they easily allow to the partner shot the private moments and when you go to hotel or resorts you must search the gaps or camera. We can't stop to the people for watching mms good thing is prevention is the best way to blame someone.
answered Mar 18, 2012 by kingmyaqueen (1,170 points)
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sometimes i used to capture my masturbation in my mobile and watch it later. (sometime i love to capture and sometime I hate this and delete. In office or in my room I used to share photos with my friends, that time I used to delete without showing my mobile to them. sometimes my girl friend want to see my nude pictures (since she is staying in her native). So i used to capture myself nude and share it in *** messenger. But these photos are still my laptop. She told not to delete those pictures. So still I am having it. I dont think this will cause any problems because I dont have my face captured in any photos. Only my girl friend can identify by seeing my naked body!!
answered Mar 18, 2012 by muthukumar1983 (472 points)
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We love to see MMS clips, because some clips gives us some spark of desire for sex, but we never think of the pain of people in that MMS going through, the pain, humiliation, loneliness and shame they along with their family goes through.
Recently I read in local news paper that the girl whose MMS clip was uploaded by her BF went to police station and within two days he was arrested. Both of them studies in Bangalore for engineering. Her home is only 20KM away from my home, one of my friend described how her friends and family treats her for her mistake, its sad that she discontinued her studies and she couldn't come out of her room due to nasty comments, staring and people laughing on her back.
After this I have many times thought of this, I myself placed in her shoes, I never could imagine anything same  happening to me or members of my family. If I was caught in the MMS, i will ignore it, if taping was done in some hotel definitely i will find the person who did that and broke his ribs and legs so that he never did this to any other.
If it was my wife with any other I will show her the door  and kick her out of my house for ever.
If it is my relatives, I will definitely stand by them and help them to file a police complaint, and if it was done by some one known to us then he wont walk on his feet.
answered Mar 19, 2012 by pussycat (4,280 points)
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