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what's d issue with nonami? [closed]

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asked Jul 18, 2012 in Discussions by mahee (2,755 points)
closed Jul 22, 2012 by longhands1
recently we all members received a mail from a member nonami. She levied some serious allegations on few editors,which raises serious questions. were they true? why was it done so, whats d status & is it resolved now?
closed with the note: Should have been sent as a PM. Your question is a private comment.
commented Jul 21, 2012 by longhands1 (67,920 points)
mahee,

I had approved your question, so that I could reply to you, but did not get the time. Anyway am doing so now, though the question is closed.

As an Editor, I owe you no explanation, but in order to maintain the high tradition of being pro-active here, I had permitted this dialogue.

What is your interaction with nonami. NIL I presume. Have you read her answers. Not one of them is fit as an answer. Only as comments. They are meaningless, childish and irrelevant. Not one answer in depth. This is not a chat line, where you exchange pleasantries and use smileys. Tell me, if you answer every question, with no substance in your answer, it means you are doing it only for points.

I rest my case.
commented Jul 21, 2012 by oye (25,670 points)
Longhands bro, I closed the question as it didnot make any sense.

In case you want to reply, being an editor you can reopen the question, add your answer and close again.  In that case your answer will remain in homepage with other current postings.



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Mahee, as per AskAnjali.com question rules, this question doesnot qualify as a question. I hope you understand that.

Whatever the issue is or was with Nonami, thats different case, should be dealt differently. When she/he started bothering other members of this site and too many complain started coming, being a moderator I had to take some decision. And the decision was to convert her replies to comment so that she/he stop that.

She/he crossed the limit and started writing PM to different users, and again complain started pouring in, this is a non-money earning knowledge sharing blog, not a place where we start judging or bothering members. That was quite unacceptable.

Once again being a moderator, one of my prime task is keep the harmony and see members feels homely, not get irritated by one or two specific users. I was keeping quite to see when a member pops a question on this site, apart from private message. That is where I did set the limit. Thanks to you for asking the question, this is what I was looking for. Till someone bothers in private is still somehow accomodable, but when the same person comes on public question, thats where I had to take the decision, I have blocked Nonami's user access.

I hope next Nonami who creates a nuisense would take a lesson from this, not to bother other members here. And this bother should not go to the extent that it becomes a public question. If you would have asked the same to me on a private message, I wouldnot block her. But your asking in public didnot help Nonami.

When there is no head, there is no headache. Let Nonami come back again and behave as everyone does.  We are friendly people here, we dont create nuisense, he/she should act the same way.
answered Jul 20, 2012 by oye (25,670 points)
commented Jul 20, 2012 by Lovemyjanu (1,305 points)
I think we have behaved indifferently with nomani . I accept that some of her questions were totally out of the mark but recently all her replies were more than good and was encouraging . We always ask for new participation and involvement of more female users but in this way we are preventing users to actively participate . I asked land cruiser , reason for converting her every answers as comment and he replied wittingly . I feel mr oye , you being a senior editor and heart of this site please look into this matter .
commented Jul 21, 2012 by oye (25,670 points)
I can unblock her in next 14 days once again. But tell me who is going to take responsibility for what crap Nanomi writes?

I have no direct or indirect interest in this blog, I am assigned with a responsibility along with our panel of editor where we agreed to keep the site clean. For one or two black sheep irritating other members, I cant spoil the sanity of the blog.

If anyone takes the responsibility and I accept to that, I will uplift her ban.
commented Jul 21, 2012 by longhands1 (67,920 points)
Lovemyjanu,

Please read my comments addressed to mahee given above.
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mahee,

I had approved your question, so that I could reply to you, but did not get the time. Anyway am doing so now, though the question is closed.

As an Editor, I owe you no explanation, but in order to maintain the high tradition of being pro-active here, I had permitted this dialogue.

What is your interaction with nonami. NIL I presume. Have you read her answers. Not one of them is fit as an answer. Only as comments. They are meaningless, childish and irrelevant. Not one answer in depth. This is not a chat line, where you exchange pleasantries and use smileys. Tell me, if you answer every question, with no substance in your answer, it means you are doing it only for points. I am waiting to hear your comments to my reply.

I rest my case.
answered Jul 22, 2012 by longhands1 (67,920 points)
commented Jul 22, 2012 by mahee (2,755 points)
Your answer make me believe-What you did was wrong. Or Truth is something else which is undisclosed.
I don't find her answers irrelevant as she hardly got a few down votes/flags.If votes doesn't have this significance y ithis option available.Abt  what u said childish, make it compulsory to have certain DEGREE to be eligible to answer any question. Abt smileys, if u have so much allergy CHANGE KEYPAD & remove smileys for ever.I liked the smileys!
commented Jul 23, 2012 by oye (25,670 points)
There is a capable team of Editors here in AAA. Till now my observation is the team is quite capable of taking any decision.

If you feel you are over qualified than the team, you have one great option, start a blog as www.AskMahee.com.  We have lost a lot of regular members, we have got more new members than what we lost. Losing you wont cause  great pain to us.

I have no other suggestion for you. We do love smart people (but not over-smart) who focuses on the issues. It seems your interest is much more on what to do, how to do. Try to understand Mahee, you are not an Editor, you are allowed to suggest your thoughts with an Editor through Private Message.

Whatever you are writing are your opinion, and as I say opinion is like an asshole, everyone has one. Please keep your opinion with yourself, I am keeping mine.  I am not looking for a reply after this. If you still feel like, I will remove this close question.
commented Jul 23, 2012 by mahee (2,755 points)
Remove it, it will be better. Thanks for suggestion to start ask mahee, but i m not interested. Longhands asked that why i responded.I sent pms to few members included editors but no response that y i asked here. 2nd, I m not willing to discuss/fight for unknown people(nonami), but don't take it as my apology!
commented Jul 23, 2012 by mahee (2,755 points)
Oye, i too didn't want to discuss this any more, that's y i didn't reply after ur initial answer. For me that was absolute. Thanks!

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