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is to ok to go for MFM threesome and wife swapping?

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asked Nov 4, 2012 in Questions by rohit_cross (125 points)
closed Nov 17, 2012 by Invincible
Hi,
I am 30 married male and wife is 28. we are married since last 2 years. It is my fantasy to see my wife with another man in bed. its my very intense desire.  is it ok to go for 3some or swapping? I want to see her enjoying with another man cock and that man handling her whole body...
if yes, please tell me how to convince he for threesome or swap.

I am crossdresser too.....and with to be treated as GF/wife in secret for my MAN. Please comment on this too.

Thanks in advance
regards
Rohit
closed with the note: Lack of feedback from the questioner and it has past 2weeks.
commented Nov 5, 2012 by shribalanarayanan (110 points)
moved Nov 5, 2012 by dan
dont make your kids regret for your mistakes
commented Nov 5, 2012 by dan (2,350 points)
shribalanarayanan,

 

Please elaborate your answer, we don't promote one-liners.

Thanks for your comprehension.
commented Aug 15, 2013 by EROSE (100 points)
edited Aug 15, 2013 by land crusier
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Dear Mr Rohit

Its a common query which we see daily amoungst consenting couples. Most couples get wary of sex in married life and seek variation.

Its very common phenomenon which has been prevelant from ages right from kamastura times...so you are not asking something forbidden.

If u want to enjoy, have a sexual talk with wife and see how she responds. It may b direct "NO"but is u work in right direction, it can work affirmative.

Show her some xxx hot movies like www.xxxxxxxxxx.xxx which has lot of xxx movies on threesum, swaps, group sex.

FInally, u can start with Facebook or yahoo with cpl sextion webcam sex. Show her some nude cpl sex. FInally when wife starts enjyoing seeing other couple sex in cam, u can request her to get nude and reciprocate.

Ones wife starts showing nude cam to other couples, then u make love ans ask her if she wants to try swaps.

For further details, u may mail at [email protected]

answered Nov 5, 2012 by mukulexotic (135 points)
edited Nov 5, 2012 by dan
commented Nov 5, 2012 by dan (2,350 points)
Mukulexotic,

No mail address address and website links please,

It's against AAA rule.

Thanks for your comprehension
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Dear Rohit,
Its normal to fanstasies like this in married life if sex between the couple is boring or you miss the fire in the bed. You can't convince your wife in one day saying that you want her to fuck someother man infront of you. Even if she has an affairs with someother man she will try to keep it secret because it must be dangerous sometime in the future. All you can do is to slowly make her to watch porn movies related to your subject and see if she is enjoying the group sex and swapping. Once she is in to it then it will easier for you to ask her what if you can try with that in real.

Also, its very easy to get a man for sex in India but a couple is difficult. So you can get a guy to fuck your wife. Since you also said that you have crossdressing habit, you can also join them during the session crossdressed so that it won't be a shock for your wife. But getting a bisexual guy is kind of difficult unless you know someone already.

Happy group sex,

Pragash
answered Nov 5, 2012 by pragashr (520 points)
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Wife swapping is a risky affair. Most Indian ladies won't accept it readily. But if your wife enjoys the advances of your friends/strangers, she is show-off cleavage/skin kind of a lady still it has minimum probability.Try talking to her, it may bring some fruits. Secondly, if you are a cross dresser and wishes to enjoy sex with a guy it will be an easy to achieve opportunity, just try hard.
answered Nov 5, 2012 by mahee (2,755 points)
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I love you guys, specially you.

You have a desire or fantasy or fetish to see your wife with another man, guys like you either fall short on sex department that cannot satisfy the partner, or has a good prospect to be a great pimp, earning money using wife. What is for you, you know.

You asked if threesome or swapping is okay. These are two issues. threesome is you get a guy and both you and the guy bang your wife. For swapping, you get to a couple and while you have sex with that wife, her husband will bang your wife. Its not threesome. Threesome or swapping is good or not, thats a relative issue. Some like it, some dont. Mostly cuckold guys like to see his wife being banged by some other male, but that opens a dangerous door where you cant control future. Same with threesome, once you allow your wife to have sex with two males, you cant stop anymore. Love will be there for you for the wallet, but soon you will lose your wife from your bed, and you will be responsible for that. But swapping is not that bad as everyone enjoys something, but find real like minded couple who wont blackmail you in future.

You are a crossdresser and wants to feel love of a man. That shows you are not only a cuckold, you are bi-sexual or predominantly a gay.  People like you should not get married to a lady and spoil her life. Your wife might not know nothing about what goes in your fantasy or head, She might not like any of your idea of being a cuckold or gay husband. I dont want to comment as I dont think being gay is wrong in anyway, only, a gay cannot run a normal husband wife relationship in long run. Just for the sake of showing world you are a normal straight person, you should have not gotten married in the first place.

So lets go back to the first instance again, you are looking for a guy to join in the bed where he can fuck both you and your wife, right? Go for a news paper ad, you would get plenty of guys ready to fill both of you.  Only request is, if you wife doesnot like the idea, dont force her. But you sure can go ahead with your adventure as a bottom gay.
answered Nov 6, 2012 by oye (25,670 points)
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Many couples do that for various reasons but obviously you have homosexual tendencies. It is perfectly normal but due to social stigma and bigotry, one finds it difficult to accept one's own homosexuality. Once you do that, you can be a free man and enjoy life more. You can even get children from your wife's lovers, if you do not feel like having sex with her but please shield your private life from your children until they are old enough.
answered Nov 6, 2012 by koolpal.b (525 points)
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From your question you mean you want some one to bang your wife and you. You are married for only two yrs and you need someone else to bang your wife says a lot about your sexuality, you are definitly a gay. I think you are not aware of this before marriage. If so get a divorce and leave your wife to live a normal life with someone else and you can explore your sexuality and be with someother guy.

For meeting your needs dont play with the life of someone else who loves and trust you as a husband. There are many men who likes to be a cuckold, for that your wife should agree to be with other men, I dont think that an average indian women will agree for it. You can discuss this with your wife,if she too is comfortable with this arrangement (Actuaaly she is lucky to have a cuckold husband if she is sexually very active) then you can proceed and you can have children from other males and grow them as yours but men with dignity wont do this.

Marriage is between two there is no room for a third person. When you introduce a third person as your wish,  you will loose the respect and leadership in the family for ever.
answered Nov 8, 2012 by pussycat (3,855 points)
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1.Fantasies of group sex are extremely common among both men and women.As with all sexual activity, the relative risks of group sex depend on the specific activities engaged in, although having a large number of sexual partners increases one's risk of exposure to sexually transmitted infections.

2.One of the biggest issues about group sex is their fear. This can be jealousy, insecurity for a variety of reasons, a feeling that it’s wrong or uncomfortable because it pushes their personal sexual boundaries.

3.No matter how great the fantasy, you need to have an honest conversation with your partner before you approach someone about joining you. Neither person should ever agree just to please the other – any sexual act you participate in should be done because you want to do it. Threesomes and group sex definitely fall into that category.A relationship can be ruined for many reasons, but group sex can definitely be a contributing factor.

These are a few of the negative reasons

Win back a partner ,  Please a partner, Hurt a partner ,
 Fear of intimacy ,Fear of commitment ,Want the rush of being in a new relationship

4.You need to see a marriage counselor to "spice" up your marriage instead of going to group sex
answered Nov 17, 2012 by srajesh (1,130 points)

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