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asked Jul 14, 2013 in Questions by Pankaj1255 (120 points)
edited Jul 14, 2013 by longhands1
I am Pankaj, from Raipur, aged 23 years.

I used to masturbate since 13 years of age. At that I would ejaculate in less than a minute. But on attaining 20, I stopped this habit.

My parents want me to get married next year. I want to ask you all, Will my earlier masturbating habit spoil my married life or my sex life??

Should I consult any doctor? Also suggest if I should take any pills for long lasting sex experience?
commented Jul 15, 2013 by AbhiRam93 (100 points)
moved Jul 15, 2013 by Invincible
Hello pankaj, im 20 now trying to get out of masturbation. how did yo feel when you left the habit dude? Did you see the difference physically or mentally after some 6 months... even i too started to feel insecure for future partner.. will you share your experience post stopping of that habit? TY



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Hi Pankaj1255, there is very much difference between sex and masturbation. Masturbation is something opposite to the nature, i mean it's more fast then Sex. So why are you tensed, why did you have any problem in future regarding sex. All men masturbate generally 90% or more than this. Why is there need of taking pills. You should wait till your marriage then enjoy with your partner and if it seems some problem then you should go to the Doctor. But now there is no need of worrying like this. It is Normal.
answered Jul 14, 2013 by Manoj4u (6,180 points)
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Hi Pankaj,
There is absolutely no reason for you get tensed on account of masturbation. If i  may suggest you need not stop your masturbation completely, just limit it to 1 or 2 sessions per week, consider it as  a net practice before the actual match. If masturbation was your only concern then you are absolutely fine & should go ahead in your life, if you are facing the problem of early ejaculation then you might have to spend some time to rectify it. First thing is you should try & practices kegel's exercise (infact even i am doing my presses while typing this), it is always beneficial. Another option is to use your masturbation sessions to your advantage, practice the start-stop method while masturbating. You might consider doing a bit of work out or atleast a brisk walk daily for 30 mins. Just push all the negative thoughts out of your mind, also as & when you get a fiance try to spend time with her so that both of you are comfortable with each other, this will help you being much more confident when you actually try to get intimate with her.
Please stay away from any medication unless & until taken under complete medical supervision!!!!!!!!!!!!!
answered Jul 14, 2013 by Sudeep Mohan (3,095 points)
edited Jul 14, 2013 by Sudeep Mohan
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Pankaj,

It is commendable that you have given up the habit of masturbation. You will see how difficult some of our Readers find giving up the habit. Your past habit will not in any way interfere with your married life. But w+hy do you w+ant to stop the habit completely? The body will then resort to wet dreams, where the excess semen is automatically discharged.

We have spoken about the Kegel's exercise on this Site. You can search for it in the "Search Box" at the top right corner. This is useful and will help you to prolong your ejaculation.  

Do not listen to quacks who will recommend pills and fast cures. Most of these are fake and are out to get your money. Remember, success is in your hands or rather in your head. Do not worry too much about your married life. All will be well.

answered Jul 15, 2013 by longhands1 (68,200 points)
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Pankaj,Dear first of all hearty congratulations for leaveing habit of masturbation and i am reaaly surprised knowing this that how one can overcome this habit! If you at all have left it then you are eligible for much more apropos! I want to assure you that your this leftout habit would in noway will affect your married and sex life ! 

             And you need not to take any kind of sex stimulant tablets! And see brother if you wil share how you overcame this habit it would be of a great help to our many members so please write it down! weather you made it as new year resolution or how did you acheived this ! 

answered Jul 15, 2013 by prashant69 (6,925 points)
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no nothing wil harm u. u try to start doing it again. dont wory abt ur marg. be confident.
answered Jul 16, 2013 by iam64 (150 points)

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