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Why do I get turned on when I show strangers my Girlfriend's nude Cam?

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asked Mar 23, 2014 in Questions by adi4u (120 points)
recategorized Mar 23, 2014 by longhands1
I often play my girlfriend's nude video on cam chat sites and allow strangers and myself masturbate watching her. I feel guilty later, but cant stop myself.  Any suggestions?



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Why you are getting turned on is because you are seeing a nude girl in front of you while others are watching but cant touch.  

Is she doing this with her own consent or you are forcing her? If she is willingly doing, then what makes you feel guilty? You should feel bad when you are at fault, from what I read, seems she is an exhibitionist, and loves to show herself to others, you are just a physically present guy with both voyure tendency to watch and exhibition tendency to show. As a man, its nothing abnormal, many has this in mind.

As you asked for suggestion, I will suggest you to get married to her.  Dont just keep her shw\owing to others and dump her later. If you feel guilty, thats a good sign, but you cannot stop her, thats real bad. Soon you get married, you will see sharing her nude wont be that easy, specially when your friends and families would say, hay Adi, saw your wife's pussy, its nice and puffy and cute but dark like Sunny Leone's, you sure would come out of this habit.

answered Mar 23, 2014 by oye (25,670 points)
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You did not provide enough information about either yourself or your girlfriend. It would have been better if you have provided sufficient information about your relationship and your bonding with your girlfriend. What I guess from your description is that you are suffering from voyeurism. You might be proud of your girlfriend's beauty and want to show others that you have such a beauty, which other do not have. When you show your girlfriend's nude picture to stranger, have you told them that this is your girlfriend. Does your girlfriend know about your fantasy?  

I think you should stop showing nude picture of girlfriend's to strangers as that will put you and your girlfriends’ reputation on risk and your girlfriend will come to know about your wrong doing with her pic and that may be very embarrassing moment for you. You have a right to enjoy your girlfriend's beauty, can do masturbation thinking about her nude, and do not share girlfriend with others. That is also reflects that you do not respect your girlfriend emotion or your relationship with her. For you your relationship is sexually object and you are enjoying. You are feeling guilty later on because deep down you know that what you are doing is not good and morally wrong you should have not done this. Give a serious though on this.
answered Mar 24, 2014 by alpesh kapdi (20,515 points)
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It excites you because it is kinky. You get a high from the risk, from the aspect that you are not a deprived person, and you can too show off your assets(your girl's,btw). We tend to discuss about our girlfriends and the intricacies of our relationships because we get a kick from it, because you feel like showing off to people, as also because we like to talk about our relationship.

I wonder if your gf is aware of this thing that you are exposing her to such a great risk. What if somebody recognises her? What if somebody shoots her video from the chat site and shares it publicly? I too, once, shared my sex video with a girl for whom a friend of mine would leer. But I have always felt bad about that. You are doing it on a public forum. I bet you don't respect her enough.
answered Mar 25, 2014 by gigs4r (1,435 points)
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adi,

It is immoral of you to show your girlfriend's nude video on cam without her permission. Correct me if I am wrong, but I think that is what you are doing. The nude video you shot of your girlfriend is for your enjoyment  and not for the viewing pleasure of others. You could be getting into lots of trouble if this relationship does not continue and turns sour.

If however your girlfriend is aware and encourages you to show her nude pics to strangers then, go ahead. If you both are serious about the relationship, you need to take care, as this is a small world and someone, somewhere may recognize her and that will be unpleasant for both of you. Think of the consequences like blackmail either for money or for sex.

Now about your strange habit. It is not so weird really as lots of couples and friends do sex cam. The reason you get turned on, is by watching and seeing the reaction of web strangers and listening to their sexy and vulgar comments. In your mind, your girlfriend is your possession and showinfg off your comquest gives you a sexual thrill.

All this is fine, but do obtain your partner's permission. 

answered Mar 26, 2014 by longhands1 (64,215 points)
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Dear adi4u,


     i think its wrong to show your girlfriend's video on cam chats. Your girlfriend showed these videos to you as you are her boyfriend,may be she trusts you and like all this. But you publish her nudity and you are saying they are strangers. who knows they are stranger or not. Nut they will recognise your girlfriend.

    Is your girlfriend knows all about this. If she knows this and thats why she gave you these video for fun then no need to feel guilty but i think this is not so. She gave these video only to you so don't mess her trust on you. Be loyal and if she wants this too and enjoy exploring herself then go ahead its your choice.

   Now i don't know what kind of relationship you both had. But if she likes to show her body like this i think you don't like it as she will your wife. But if she is restricted only to you then no problem in it and if you want to spend your life together then you should take care of her . Don't dump her if anyone got her nude video which is not a stranger.Now its your wish.

   Now for your question,it gives you excitement because you are watching a nude girl and its normal and other people may comment about your girlfriend's body which you like the most. So its normal because you its like a more fun.
answered Mar 31, 2014 by Manoj4u (6,155 points)
edited Mar 31, 2014 by Manoj4u

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