I am Rohini. I am here for getting some valuable answers for my problem.
I am a widow since 6-8 years. I am 42 years old. I don’t have any sexual partner after my husband’s death. I do regular masturbation when I am alone at home. But, since last few months, I am getting very bad kind of thoughts and dreams.
Actually, all this is started when once I woke up in the middle of the night to pee and when I was going to the toilet I saw my male relative masturbating. I was shocked to watch him in that condition and he too knew that I had seen him. He quickly hid himself, but I had seen his private part.
After that, I regularly get thoughts about him and his private part comes in my mind. I get horny thinking about it and at night in bed I dream about what I saw. It makes my vagina wet. I get very bad kind of dreams thinking about him in my mind. Now, I get very horny and masturbate thinking about him.
Problem is that he is my relative and very close (I dont want to disclose my relation with him). I feel that I am getting sick minded. Is this because I dont have sex now? Are these kind of thoughts normal? How should I avoid these kind of dreams and thoughts.
Please help me about this.
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