Ask Anjali - Recent questions tagged anal sex

fear in anal sex.

Sat, 11 May 2013 19:22:50 +0000

My husband and me done anal sex two or three times. It was very painful. Besides, I faced problems in toilet, in morning. After that I discouraged him for anal.
But, now I feel that we should start anal also. So what to do to manage the fear of pain? We used a plenty of lubricant at that time.

Anal hole licking.

Tue, 07 May 2013 12:05:13 +0000

Dear Anjali,

I am 36 and my wife is 32; I like to kiss and then lick the anal hole of my wife. When the opening is well lubricated with my spit I insert and penetrate my tongue in my wife's anal passage and fuck her anus with my tongue. We both enjoy vaginal intercourse as well. Will there be any harm if we continue this?

Male Anal Masturbation

Mon, 06 May 2013 16:38:38 +0000

Is Male Anal Masturbation normal for any straight man? I came across this on internet about male anal masturbation . I remember reading somewhere to feel around for a big ball (prostate) which gives same effect as the normal penis masturbation gives . Is this true ??? should I try this type of masturbation ??? is anyone tried this ??? is this normal for a normal man ??? will it gives pleasure to me ??? i'm worried of whether will it pain later after trying ???? plz suggest me .

I like to play with my anus while masturbating (male).

Sat, 04 May 2013 01:59:38 +0000

I am a 21 year old guy and inserting something in my ass like my fingers gives me good feeling and pleasure but it does not give me any gay like feeling at all. Please help me.

Male to Male sexual experience - should I go ahead with it?

Wed, 24 Apr 2013 11:51:35 +0000

Hello, I am a 28 year old 'Bicurious/Bisexual' guy in Pune. I have had an attraction towards mature/old men for a very long time and now I have decided to do something about it. I have been toying with the idea of getting into a purely sexual relations with a mature/old man I met through a gay dating website. I am not interested in having intercourse but would only like to indulge in oral sex. What I would like to know is - what kind of precautions should I take before I indulge in such an activity? Is there any chance of me contracting an STD if I use a flavored condom before performing the act of blowjob on the man I intend to get together with? If I do decide to have anal sex with my partner, both of us being males, is there anything in particular that we should be careful about? Thanks in advance for your help.

How to convince my wife for blowjob and anal sex?

Fri, 29 Mar 2013 11:21:18 +0000

Dear anjali mam and all friends. I m 28 year old and my wife is 25 year old. My wife is very loving and caring. And i also love her veru much. My problem is that i have huge desire about anal sex and oral sex. But my wife just hate it . She is simple arthodox indian woman. I try to change her mind by showing indian sex clips of oral . Blowjob. Even many colleg girls also in that video give blowjob to their boy friend before marriage. But even she does not give me blow job. Also she not allow anal because of pain.... I m get frustrated because of this. Some time i thought about extra maritual affair for anal and blow job.

Plz friend how to convienence my wife. Any femle friend on a.a. Plz give me advice. Indian women does not like blowjob???. Plz my indian female friend present here plz wt do i feel while giving u blowjob to ur male partner??? Do u feel dirty??? If precum is stick to ur mouth than do u feel?? Because my wife just womate if precum on penis is stick to her mouth. She told me me she is ready for blowjob but her condition is that precum is not came from penis. But precum is natural na??? Plz healp me......

I feel alot of pain in trying anal sex, tell how to do it without pain.

Sat, 16 Mar 2013 08:21:30 +0000

Hi,
I am Sadaf Ahmad, 28 years of age, at present in a physical relation with 34 year old man. I had few sexual relations in past. I lost virginity when when I was 15 years old to a classmate. Since then I am very active in sex, but only vaginal. My previous boy friends wanted anal sex but I always refused. My present sex partner also wants to penetrate my ass. How ever the relation is purely physical, there are no emotions involved, but dont know why I agreed and also wants him to enter my ass. We tried on few occasions, with and without condoms, but he could not penetrate more than an inch because I feel terrible pain.
I want him to penetrate my ass to his full length but the pain is restricting it.
Please tell me how he can penetrate me completely in my ass.
Waiting for a solution to my problem.
Sadaf Ahmad

Whole Hand in anal

Mon, 18 Feb 2013 12:04:51 +0000

Hie anjali mam, few days before i saw in a porn movie that guy inserted his hole hand in girl's anal & touched her stomach from inside..How is it possible?????

ANAL PAIN ( in butts )

Sat, 09 Feb 2013 20:19:09 +0000

hello mam,

    i am 23 years girl ( unmarried ) . I have a boyfrnd from last 1 year
    and after 5 months we had sex 1st time and after that we sex 4-5 times
    a week averagly till now .BUT from the last two months he was forcing me to have anal sex but i always refused him but 5 days ago when last time we had sex , he forced me again for anal sex and then i also got agree .

i lay down on bed with pillow under my stomach and from behind he did
and i feel lots of pain but he was going for it and he spent 5/6 minutes in penetrating.

But from that day i have too much burning in my butts anal . I told all this matter to my very close frnd neha then she rubbed oil on my butts and anal she also put oil in my anus through finger BUT all this gave me temporay relief and now iam in so much pain .

Please plzzz. suggest me what should ido and i cant tell this to my parents .

I want to have anal sex

Sat, 09 Feb 2013 19:25:58 +0000

I am 23 years old my boyfriend wants to fuck me from behind ( in butts ) and I also want to try this. Is there any problem in doing that?