Hi Anjali and guys,
I am Sagar 25 years old male. I hate marriage, but everyone is against me. I have my own reasons which I am mentioning here:
I love to lead a peaceful life, which is impossible, need to sacrifice independence, have to compromise, we will be sandwiched between parents and wife though u give equal importance to both, hmm….none will be satisfied and start abusing u….what not…haa…..there's no end. And some married people also adviced me not to marry and smiling wickedly had said its unavoidable….hmmm….and frankly there is lot more to say.
NOTE: I dont hate women.
How are you going to fulfill your biological requirements. It is not a question of one day. It is to be thought for your whole life. Will you like to visit the red light areas? Will it be safer? Will it be possible all the time under scorching sun, heavy rains, bitter cold? What will be your fame in the saciety as a prostitution lover? Think everything brother before asking such harsh questions. Even the so called big saints and "MAHATMAS" too are often caught involved with underground flesh game. You are so young. Don't be rash in important life decisions.
You know sunshine, grass is always greener. You are 25, seems everything is great and normal now. I have seen plenty of people like you who though marriage is a disturbance to their privacy, once they cross 40 and still single, they know they pain.
Marriage is not for sex or child, its most importantly for the company of another person in life. Once you grow old and you have none to talk to, you will know the pain of loneliness. Even all your friends you are having a fun time, soon enough they will get married and have a family life, before you understand anything you will see they are having nice get together without the single ones.
In between sandwitched situation, people are getting married and managing parents and wife. Getting married or not is your choice, just think about the small fact, if your parents were not married, you would not write this question.
ow oww..oww..cool cool,u r far more elder to me i know what u mean,but what to do oye ,i have seen many failure marriages in my surroundings,when i was growing,it really had a strong impact on me….hmm u r ryt,i vl definitely feel lonely at the age of 40,or above that,hmm i have an option but u may feel i am really a silly stupid and talking childishly…..i am a member of an organisation ryt nw..started by students whose motto is to create future citizens of india…by eradicating child begging,and giving education to them…..and i am planning to give medical service to children ,and i love children so i dont mind to adopt children …..i dont mean to hurt u but,ruining life in the name of marriage is it right…..@ dr.deepika didi…..cool,i was brought up by my parents in such a way that i dont smoke drink and even hesitate to lie,then y would i do prostitution,of course u have a point but why should someone sacrifice his or her life only for sex……there are lot of reasons behind me talking this manner,lot of disturbance which made me take this decision ,indeed fear for marriage.
Every body goes with feeling but have to get married. Marriage is that fruit if you eat it you will sorry and if you don't eat it you will feel sorry about it.
Do you have some alternate object whom you can fuck for the whole life? If not you should accept to be married. Otherwise after you are over mature no one will marry you and you will wander as a crazy fucker here and there in want of some one to get fucked by your older cock which is not acceptable by any one. Beware.
when u lie on the bed with nO ONE to smile at you , you will realise why people marry
no u don`t have marriage phobia but its ur mental phobia