Hi Anjali,
I am sarmesh from odisha 25 years old unmarried male. I love porn and love to explore new themes and content in the internet. I love femdom and CFNM(clothed female and nude male) the most. Consequently I have developed a fantasy of experiencing CFNM in real life. I fancy being asked to be naked or forcibly being stripped by a girl or a small group of girls. I fantasize myself being completely handled by a girl I mean she forcing me to be naked while she is dressed, playing with my balls and banana and teasing me, slapping me at times being aggressive, squeezing my balls and slapping my face and ass, forcing me to put my face between her ass and order me to lick it, may be spit on me and urinate in my mouth.
Is it wrong to have such fantasies? I fantasize to have a girlfriend who would treat me in such a dominant way.
Do women and young girls of our country have such type of fantasies I mean the fantasy of dominating a guy.
Such incidents are heard with extremely low frequency. In 1998 when I was in Spain I knew a friend (then 45) who used to describe his sex act with his fiancee (then 49) in a picturesque manner. Both of them, after getting completely nude, used to urinate over each other's whole body, spit in each other's mouth interiors and sex organ counterparts, molest each other's each and every organ with strong hand grips, the lady used to rub male's penis by both her legs, and the male used to insert his toes inside lady's vagina. Both used to drink each other's urin as well before the actual fuck process. After the hard fuck, the lady used to drink the male's semen, while the male used to suck the vaginal orgasmic juice.
Another incident happened with me when I was once fully exploited by the three young daughters of my land lord as a penalty for not being able to pay my house rent for three continuous months in late 1987 in Rockville, USA. All the three made me completely nude and asked me to wildly fuck each of them one by one in dog-style and properly ejaculate inside them every time. I requested them with folded hands to give at least 1-2 hours of gap but they did not agree. At last I was to start with strong will power. But at the same time the eldest one had a brutal tooth-bite on my penis bulb. I just cried. But they ordered me to do with each of them in the same condition. As a consolation they offered me to tooth-chew their meaty breast nipples and extra-meaty vaginal flaps. This relieved me to a great extent, and I found that I could successfully hard-fuck all the three one by one while tooth-chewing their meaty breast nipple bullets and extra-meaty vaginal flaps. Afterwards they asked me not to pay the house rent for the period ahead till I stay with them as a tenant. Of course I was asked to wildly fuck them daily (1st sister in the morning, 2nd sister after lunch and the 3rd sister in the night) to fully quench their sex thirst. I saw that fucking was to be scheduled at more than six hours of gap, so I agreed and performed my best for the next 17 months I remained there. Thus, what I like to impress upon Mr. Sarmesh that such cases were seen and experienced in western countries but I don't think ladies in India are so much extra-aroused and pre-horny to jointly fuck or gang-rape a nude lad of 25. Better you masturbate nude in this imagination (with 5-6 such girls & ladies whom you wish to be wildly and actively hard-fucked by you while you remain to be passive).
thank you for your views kanhatomar.but let me just clarify that I don't fantasize hard fucking and also a strict no to biting.no molestation of course.my fantasy is simple, may be u can put it in the category of exhibitionism and foreplay.the scenarios u described ends up with the guy being exhausted and bruised.i don't think tht's in a a good taste.what i fantasize is the show and how women react to it.the fun associated with it.the teasing.spanking is ok but it should not leave one feeling uneasy and bruised in the bum for a longer duration.
hey thats no fantasy don`t u get it u are developing a no good reason of getting raped by a women…u like women domination..
Nothing wrong in such weird imaginations.If u can get them done,that will b great.Every human has his/her own way of thinking about their sexual desires.If they can get what they want,that wud b better.
CNFM is a vague term, used for different purpose. It stands for voyerism to make fun, submissive men on dominitrix, enjoy through male stripper and so on. Later what you have described, its not for the fun part, its more on you want to be dominated as Slave-Masters game.
You said its your fantasy, I assume you haven't tried yet. Other than drugs, I always am keen to try out anything. No harm on this trying unless you get addict on the act.
Answer to your question, its not wrong to have wild fantasy, unless it harms anyone. Fantasy lighten the joy in sex. The other reply is, I don't think there are much woman who has the fantasy of acting on domination game. After all, I do believe, there are more sane people than insane in this world.
You are doing a social service. Keep up the good work buddy!
tell ur fantasy to the woman whom u r marrying,i guess she vl definitely agree with u because females love domination,but remember u vl b her slave for the rest of ur life….
Thanks to Mr. Oye for suggesting me (on another post)not to be emotional on others’ remarks towards stoppping to share my views on this blog. In fact I write through my nick name since I do not wish my name or fame as a romantic-sex expert, though worked hard and published in my main name concurrent with Martin Danekkar’s school of thought. It is my bad luck that I am mostly mistaken in view of my explicit expressions. For example, while working on the biochemical nature of vaginal sap oozed out when a woman is aroused, we may not have got clean & disease (pappilovirus)-free ladies from the market as our experimental material, and hence the use of trustful & mutually consented blood un-related incest (mami, chachi, wivs of elder & younger brothers, wife’s elder & younger sisters, mother-in-law, 2nd cousins of own cousins, etc.) or alike broad-minded friends’ or neighbours’ wives, distant relatives. We never use unmarried girls, in the lack of their mothers’ consent (the elder sister of my wife herself offered her 18 yr young unmarried daughter for this purpose who is a research-minded student of human genetics). While experimenting with this girl compared with other ladies under different age groups, our team established that the vaginal nectar released by the very sweetly aroused women does contain (a) vitamin-C which is in excess over her own body requirement, & (b) the rare germicidals analogous with the properties of Ayurvedically established curatives like ‘neem’, ‘tulsi’, ‘peppal’ & ‘bael’. The amounts of active ingradients of these beneficial compounds vary from woman to woman (commensurate with their inherent properties) and the degree of their eroticism which mostly depends upon the men how sweetly, softly and artfully they are disposed off during the pre-fuck process. Means concentrating & excercizing upon ones mental faculty how best are you going to utilize your genetically inherent property of sex pleasure derivation. This is the reason why males absorbing the horny pre-sex vaginal sap look to be (and are designated to be) ever-green. It is a mere question of how do you see the things, whether from a positive or negative angle. And what is the harm if both of you end with a well-consented sex while performing such experimentations. Neither it comes under rape nor beatiality nor child sex. But I have been criticized by many while appreciated also by many who look to the realm of my expressions from the scientific angle and not the mere romantically colourful approach of expression. We have already established (under publication) that before females urinate in the early morning, if the diabetic males suck & engulf the creamy, viscous & colloidal vaginal exudates, slowly deposited for the whole night in females vagina, the intake of diabetic medicine (including insulin injection units) may be reduced to as low as half (now on clinical trial). But we still need people who may appreciate this, as we need good listeners to appreciate a fabulous classical music recital. And virtually this is the reason why we appear with a different name so that social enigma does not come in way of our ongoing fruitful researches which have to seemingly prove beneficial for the common mass, sooner or later. I would be really thankful to those who endorse my self-less contructive views, never intending to harm or provoke any one for a misdeed. That’s all I can say at the moment.