Hi Anjali,

I am new to this column. I am a 22 years old guy and right now I am studying. I am going through a very annoying phase of my life as I cannot concentrate in my studies anymore and its all because of my mom. Let me tell you about her she is a 43 years old housewife, but she has maintained herself and she pulls herself to look like a 30 years old women.

I love my mom she is too caring towards me and she loves me more than anything in this planet. My parents had a love marriage and they love each other a lot. Everything was going just fine until I went for my college. My mom started getting too depressed as she had only me as dad is too much into his business so he hardly could take out any time for us. So after I went for my college she use to call me daily and she used to cry as a child and kept on repeating this thing that she is feeling too lonely without me in this house at first I use to think that she might be missing me and she will get along with this fact lately and use to ignore it but then it went serious her health started deteriorating to which I felt very bad and I went to meet her as meant the world to me.

I asked her whats her problem and consoled her that its only a matter of few years and i'll be back to her, to this she agreed and things went just fine for exact 2 years. But recently i observed a strange thing about my mom when I went to my home on my semester break was that she was constantly busy on her phone and she was reluctant to tell me who was she talking to, on asking her firmly she said it was just a friend of hers. But after that i found a strange thing about my mom was that she started dressing too sexily and I even found lacy bras and panties in her closet too which I was totally surprised. One such incident which I would like to share with you was that one day she said she was going to my aunt's place and it will be late for her to return, but the things which was fascinating for me was that she wore a tight sleeveless short kurti along with denim blue jeans and she applied a very sultry make up on her face she was looking damn hot that day.

I sensed that something fishy so i called my aunt and asked her whether there are any plans of my mom coming to her place to which she said (as expected) "No".. so I waited for her and when she returned I was totally amazed to see her, her make was all gone, her hairs where totally messed up and to the most shocking thing that i discovered that evening was she wasn't wearing her bra as it was in her purse. Not only that she was limping too and she said that she is very tired and she wanted some rest, so I asked her to sleep that day she slept for 6 hours and all that time I just kept thinking about her that where was she? what was she doing? so to my curiosity i went to the bathroom and checked out her clothes I found her panty which was wet and a strong smell on male sperms came from I was totally sure that she had sex today, but with whom and why is she doing this?

Maybe because my dad doesn't give her enough time or because of my absence. Whatever it may be but it is killing me from inside as this kind of topic i cannot discuss with my friends or with anyone else, so thats why I found this column of yours and found it really helpful. Please help me what should i do? should I directly confront my mom? or just let her be happy with this extra martial affair? or should I follow her and catch her red handed while having sex with that guy? what should I do? please guide me!