Hey Anjali aunty,
I am 23 years old male and virgin recently met with a women and when I tried for the first time, for around 15 minutes we did foreplay and in that only I got discharged and my penis didn’t erect again. I want to ask why this has happened, is that anything serious please suggest me how to overcome from it?
Hello Anjali ji,
I am Sandy 25 years old male from Delhi. I ejaculate very soon while having sex with my wife and my wife is very much angry on because of this. I feel very shameful while facing her during Sex. What do I do to increase my sex time and sex power? And also how can I satisfy my wife completely?
Please help me!
Dear Anjali aunty,
This is Dipak 25 years old male from Jharkhand. At the age of 14 I started masturbation and I did it in excess but after 6 months I quit it completely. After that Night fall started 8-12 times per month till now. Recently I met a girl and I had sex with her, during the act i did a lot of foreplay my penis got erected but there was no stiffness. When I inserted my penis inside her after 15 to 20 seconds I ejaculated.
I thought it may be due to excess excitement but in second round it again happened. I ejaculated in 20 seconds. After that I tried many times but every time I ejaculated less than 30 seconds and my orgasm is very week. My semen comes in very less amount and thin like water. I have consulted many doctors but nothing happens yet.
Please help me.
Dear Anjali Aunty,
I am man of 38 years and I have been married for more than 11 years. We have an excellent sex in all these years. My issue is, my wife is coming too fast. I want her to enjoy bit more and me too. Can you guide me?
Thanks a lot.
Hi Anjali Aunty,
I am a 26 year old guy. I had sex with a girl 2 months before and that is the first time in my life. I did foreplay for more than an hour and after that I had sex with her. I took nearly 30 minutes to come out. Is it normal? Before this incident, I used to masturbate regularly 3 or 4 times in a week and my semen will come out in 5 or 10 minutes but it did not happen when I was having sex with her. My rod was hard for 30 minutes.
I would like to do like again but I am confused that because of my masturbation habit, I take such a long time. Some of my friends tell me that they come out in 5 or 10 minutes.
Please suggest me the truth.
Hello Anjali Auny,
I am masturbating daily since the last 6 years. I had sexual contact 4 or 5 times with my girlfriend but after my breakup I didn't have sex for 1 and a half years. After that I had a chance to have sex with another girl but at that time I felt that my libido has decreased and the erection is very weak as well.
I thought that it might have happened because of the long time interval but its happening again and again. I am not married yet but that could be a problem in my future married life. Is it because I am masturbating everyday? Tell me how do I gain my power again?
Hi Anjali ji,
I am a 25 year old guy. I have a question regarding something unusual which happened for 2 times. When I was trying to have intercourse with my girlfriend the last time, I started fucking her in quick session. I got discharged within 2 minutes. After sometime, when I tried to do it again, my penis did not get erect properly. There were weaker orgasms. This has happened 2 or 3 times. I had sex just 2 time before all this happened.
The second thing is that, I have a bad habit of masturbation. Do you think that it might be the reasons behind my weaker erections? Please guide me on what I should do? Give me a suitable suggestion for my problem. I am most tensed.
Hi Anjali Aunty,
I am Soumen. I am 27 years old. I am 5' 5'' tall and weigh 46kg. I am in a big problem. My parents forcing me to marry. But I know I have problem with my penis. When it eject, it never get hard and I ejaculate within 30 to 40 seconds.
Please aunty help me. What can I do? If the problem is not solved, the only way for me is suicide because my parents are forcing me. Please aunty you are my only hope because I am too shy a person. Please help me.
Dear Anjali Aunty,
I am a 25 year old virgin guy and I am unmarried. I got in the act of masturbation since age 15 and now I am going through erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. I wanted to know if excess loss of sperms can affect one's stamina and cause body aches. These days I get tired soon and I don't feel like doing any work.
Please help me out on how to regain my stamina. Thank you.
Hello Anjali Aunty,
This is Ravi here. I was just inquisitive with regard to a question that I am supposed to ask. I do watch a lot of porn movies. I have read somewhere that male porn stars use creams and sprays so that they can perform for a long period of time without ejaculating. So considering it as their normal day's work (i.e. acting in porn movies) do you feel that it will stress them out even though mostly people get excited about sex?
Secondly do you feel that male porn stars would be able to enjoy sex just like a normal man would? Considering that they would be using sprays or creams to perform longer.
Thirdly whenever a person knows he is going to have sex with a women he has never had sex with or for that matter have never seen her before in his life, and considering she looks very beautiful, do you feel the person will be able to control his ejaculation even though he may have used creams or sprays to control ejaculation.
I hope you would personally answer to my question. I also hope to hear the views of all the members especially the ones with most AskAnjali Dollars. I hope that my question would be posted on the site.
Thanks
Dear Anjali Aunty.
I am a guy due to be married in 3 weeks. Everything was ok with me till 1 week ago. I had a problem in my stomach and since then I am having premature ejaculations whenever I try to masturbate. My penis doesn't raise fully but on other hand while I don't masturbate, my penis raises full up (while sleeping or whenever I think some of sex).
I am unable to understand why I am having premature ejaculations. As I was ok before, is it because of the stomach problem? Please help me as I have to be fit before my wedding.
Dear Anjali Aunty,
I am 40 years old and nowadays my erection is very little. I feel my penis is not becoming as stiff as it used to be. What do I do? Is there any medicine for this without side effects. Also I am having pre mature ejaculation.
Please advice.
Dear Anjali Aunty,
I quite often watch your site and got knowledge from it. I think it is very useful for me. My question is related to early discharge. I am 27 years old and married for a year now. I have a very nice and co-operative wife who helps me a lot while sex not like other shy girls but my problem is after penetration – just after 5 or 8 strokes, I discharge and I feel very guilty by that. Though my wife have never complained for that, I am quite worried for this problem as I also want to satisfy her.
To avoid this to some extent, a few days before I have tried to masturbate before having sex though it didn't work up to my expectation but it did increase my timing up to 10 to 13 stroke.
Madam is there any way I can increase my timing for discharging? Or is there any pills available in the market which are safe (side effect wise) and effective at the same time? Please give me some solution. I will be thankful to you for lifetime.
Regards.
Hi Anjali Aunty,
I am Santosh Agarwal, age 24. Whenever I masturbate, I release within a minute, but most of my friends tell me they release after 2 minutes. It seems there is a problem?
Can you suggest me some tips for holding at least for 2 minutes. I am waiting for your reply! Regards Santosh.
Hi Anjali Aunty,
I am a 29 year old un-married man. And have been continuously masturbating since I started a decade ago. For the last couple of years, erection has been low and going lower day by day. I have started taking a pill called "Vigrx plus" after being recommended by a close friend. The medicine does work a bit, but I am not fully satisfied with it.
My first question is whether it is safe to consume this medicine. I have tried it for 2 weeks. It improved erection slightly but makes me feel dizzy and also I have little strange feeling in my ear. On the other hand, I have a strange white sort of rash-like-thing at the circumference of the top part of my penile area. These are group of small and whitish in colour. It does not hurt nor itch. But I feel it made the area little bit more sensitive than usual which it causes me to come quicker.
Please suggest what to do. I am anxiously waiting for your reply. I shall always remain thankful for you help.
Thanking you.
Yours Sincerely.
W. Ali
Dear Anjali Aunty,
I am a great fan of yours. My age is 22. I am single. My marriage is being fixed shortly. I have a big problem.
1) I joined ZYM Gym at the age of 17. My gym instructor, my friends keep telling me if I would not wear a supporter, then water will be filled in my testicles and they will be in hanging position soon and believe me the same just happened to me. I think due to this (my testicals are hanging), I am not being able to hold my ejaculation for even 2 minutes.
Please give an answer to me and clear my doubt. Its very urgent maam. I hope you will understand my feelings.
2) I started masturbating at the age of 12. Now I have a very small 4.5 inch penis with 1 minute ejaculation time.
Please help me to improve this thing as my marriage is soon.
Hi Anjali Aunty.
How are you? Hope you are fine. I am a regular visitor of your site and I would like to take the oppurtunity to thank you for your wonderful deeds.
Anjali Aunty, My name is Nayan Bora. I am from Assam. My age is 27 years. Recently I got married with just an 18 year old girl. During several attempts of intercourse with her, I am unable to penetrate her. I come as soon as I put my penis into her pussy. I don't know what to do. She is not happy with me at all. Even I feel embarrassed. It has been three months of our marriage.
So please Anjali Aunty, guide on me how to penetrate my wife.
Hi Anjali Aunty
I am 24 year old male from TamilNadu. I married recently and I have a problem of comming too soon while I have sex with my wife. Please let me know how I could avoid this. I do satisfy my wife by having some foreplay and licking her vagina. Is oral sex injurious to health. Please help
Hi Anjali Aunty,
I must say you are doing great job by resolving sexual queries of this world. As in India, its really hard to seriously discuss anything related to sex even with one's best buddy.
I am a 24 year old guy and have a girlfriend of age 22. We both are enjoying our sex lives since the last 1 year. We used to get chance once in a month or two to enjoy it. I have a question regarding something unusual that happened last week. Continue reading
Hi Anjali Aunty,
This is Kumar 22 from Chennai. I’m going to get married with my girlfriend within three years from now. Last month we had sex. At that time I got ejaculated before entering into the vagina. I use to have habit of masturbation which I stopped a year back. I am very much worried about what happened and I am afraid whether this problem will affect my sex life in future. I don’t know what’s the problem I am suffering with. Please help me to overcome this problem.
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